caribeandiva
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@caribeandiva You are not alone
Y’all got crazy parents too?Neither are you! We got you up in this e-verse, universe. Hang in there!
@caribeandiva You are not alone
Y’all got crazy parents too?Neither are you! We got you up in this e-verse, universe. Hang in there!
I’m still working through lots things from my Pre-France life.Y’all got crazy parents too?
My ends are healthy, but I at the cost of length. I get trims regularly and they often turn into cuts to maintain my shape.Aww, thank you! I am trying to get my ends super healthy like YOURS!!!
Have you decided on your next goal? And, have you decided on how you will proceed? Self trims to gain length? Continue with stylist who shapes your hair? Go to stylist who does good trims and keeps your length?My ends are healthy, but I at the cost of length. I get trims regularly and they often turn into cuts to maintain my shape.
They feel amazing, but I think the price I pay for them is too high.
I haven’t decided. My current stylist can do good trims to retain length.Have you decided on your next goal? And, have you decided on how you will proceed? Self trims to gain length? Continue with stylist who shapes your hair? Go to stylist who does good trims and keeps your length?
Yea lol. Only one bothers me now.Y’all got crazy parents too?
You are analyzing the situation and mulling over your options and where you've been and where you'd like to go. The boys in the basement, your subconscious, will bubble up an answer for you! Keep thinking things over. And, take baby steps!I haven’t decided. My current stylist can do good trims to retain length.
But the last time I saw her I complained that the back of my hair was way longer than the rest and said I wanted to gradually cut it to so that it would look good (blend with the rest).
She seemed like she understood and she said she would trim the back while it was still curly and then do a blow out trim on the rest, but she ended up cutting 5-6” from the back. :-0
I was traumatized at first, but my wash n go looks sooooo much better now so I got over it. But this is why the shortest parts of my hair are 10 inches and the rest of my hair is 13-15 inches.
So now I don’t know what I will do. I do want 30” hair, but I’m not sure how to get there and wear a wash n go that looks good along the way. Or if I can even get there wearing wash n gos
Awww, thank you for the compliment. I’ll have to look up a passion twist as I don’t know what that is!
Thank for the photos and the compliment! Ain't that somethin'. I'm sitting here complaining about what my hair does naturally, and folks out her buying and paying to get what I got for free. Let me go and count my hair blessings.They're really pretty twists done with curly hair, so the twists aren't as rigid/tight.
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Ladies love them bc they're not as uniformed as rope twists. There's a variety that's even less uniformed. I think they're called "butterfly locs" or something. Your twists favor those too. So pretty!
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I posted what happened here so I can stop derailing this thread. Carry on ladiesYea lol. Only one bothers me now.
You ain't derailing this thread! Have you seen some of MY posts????!!!I posted what happened here so I can stop derailing this thread. Carry on ladies
Post in thread 'Daughters of narcissistic mothers'
https://longhaircareforum.com/threads/daughters-of-narcissistic-mothers.740831/post-25938491
Please don't get scissor happy. You can and should do what is best for you, of course and I will support you! I will support you but not them scissors.@Chicoro That first part cracked me up, because it's something I would say. I agree with you though. My brain is always segue-ing lol (fun fact, I thought it was spelled "segway" not "segue". Language lol)
But I think I need a trim now. I think when I take this latest style down, I definitely need to trim, if not cut. I'll wait until I get my hair straightened to be sure.
Please don't get scissor happy. You can and should do what is best for you, of course and I will support you! I will support you but not them scissors.
Thank you!You ain't derailing this thread! Have you seen some of MY posts????!!!
Whatever comes up from this thread or is triggered by something in this thread can go here, too. But thank you for thinking of us and providing the link to the more detailed post.
Whatever any of us has to say, brought up or brought out by this thread comes up for a reason. And, it is always welcomed in this thread.
This YouTube Short came across my feed. I LOVED the health of her ends. Then, the video image showed her natural hair.
THEN...
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my Spidey Senses started tingling.
Video where I saw her use Shea butter:
I KNEW IT! I knew she was a Shea head. She used Shea butter after she straightened her hair.
How I Blow Out My Natural 4C Hair | Will The Revair Work On 4C Hair?
Sapphire Delight
You are right! I saw that, too. I did forget that. That was the impetus for me wanting to post her in this thread, then I got completely off-track.@Chicoro don't forget she also used fenugreek oil. We are on the right track.