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Here's my picture. I hadn't straightened in 10 years, I knew my ends were probably a little scraggly but I had no idea it was this bad. Are my ends salvageable or am I looking at a chop?
Thank you for posting your photo. Unless your ends are knotted and split, I wouldn't chop ANYTHING right now. You see, freshly cut ends are like a treasure chest. They are golden and valuable. But, if you are still learning how to nurture your ends, it may not be possible to optimize the beauty of those fresh ends.
What I see when I look at your hair are strands that fall all the way down to your waist. That tells me that at some future point you can have full, even hair at waist length.
I do not think those ends are salvagable as in you can hold them there until the rest catches up. That is only because anytime you have hair that is 3 or 4 inches longer than the majority or bulk of the hair, those ends are very likely to break off because they are too vulnerable and fragile due to hanging at that length by themselves. The more hair you have at the same lengths, the more likely you can retain that hair.
If it were me, I would start focusing on my ends to try to ensure I knew how to baby and nurture them. That means modifying my processes and documenting with pictures and notes on what is working, neutral and problematic for my hair. Once I determined and found what was making my hair and ends thrive, seeing progressing every month for
three months, then I would retain those things working for me in my routine. You will know that the routine is working if the hair starts to become softer, shinier, more manageable and begins to gain noticeable length, even if that length is just a few strands dropping longer.
At
THAT point, I would get a trim and even up my hair. Why?
- You've developed a routine that is solid and beneficial to your hair.
- You've had time to psychologically sit with and mentally prepare yourself to release some of the length.
- You've got a process down that purposefully nurtures and focuses on the ends.
- You've learned a way to optimize and protect those priceless, freshly cut ends for the future.
- You can prepare yourself for maximum growth because you know how to preserve the hair strand and structure from the inside out.
- You have saturated your mind and belief with the knowledge that you can grow your hair to your waist with full, healthy ends.
If you cut your ends today, and you don't have a good Ends Routine, you will just be risking and practicing on those precious, freshly cut, priceless new ends.
I say hold off from trimming for just three (3) more months. I think by then, with conscious effort and diligent process modifications, you will arrive at a great routine that includes nurturing and optimizing your ends. It is not going to happen automatically. You have to be diligent and conscious making and implementing modifications.
Wait three months and work on your process. Then, revisit trimming in March of 2022!