[USER=381825 said:
jennwantslonghurr[/USER];19678937]Thanks girl for responding!
I think you may have hit the nail on the head. I prefer the feeling of cleanliness for my hair which is most likely the cause of my frequent trimming. My hair does not do the obvious split instead it thins or hardens/dry out beyond repair. Perhaps I should should push through the intial icky feeling and see how my hair holds up after a few tries without flip flopping my method.
When you rinse with water, you still follow up with the honey balm as leave in?
After water rinsing, do you deep condition with heat/steam while using the honey balm? Does the honey not harden on your hair... maybe just with relaxed hair. Yes faith I got all the questions lol.
I think after I rinse my problems arise with my leave in/moisture application. After I rinse the conditioner when cowashing my hair is already feeling yuck.
My thoughts out loud: honey must balance the tea properly(?), so interesting taking notes. My hair freaks out when using tea. Perhaps not balancing as well as I thought.
I certainly don't mind questions. Trust me I have had so many over the years.
Because I'm no longer using a lot of product my hair doesn't feel icky. If you have seen any of my old threads you might remember my hair doesn't like oils, butters, honey, etc. etc. etc. And my hair stays dry, dry, dry. It's a long history.
I cut out the shampoo, did one acv rinse, switched to tea and my hair is fine with oils, butters and honey
When you rinse with water, you still follow up with the honey balm as leave in?
I did the first week but I haven't since then. My hair feels better each time I do it so I haven't felt the need. After a water rinse, I either spritz it with the oil free balm or I put on a little hazelnut oil.
After water rinsing, do you deep condition with heat/steam while using the honey balm? Does the honey not harden on your hair... maybe just with relaxed hair.
I don't do anything after the midweek rinses. Just spritz with tea and baggy for 15 minutes and then apply a little hazelnut oil.
Surprisingly the honey does not harden my hair or make it sticky. The 1st time I used it I was not convinced but I followed directions. I used a quarter size over my entire head. In the past I would use a quarter size on one section. Then I baggied for 20 minutes with no heat. My draw dropped when I took off the baggy. My hair was so soft. It wasn't greasy. It wasn't sticky. And I didn't have to get back in the shower to rinse it out. I think the product must be well formulated.
I think after I rinse my problems arise with my leave in/moisture application. After I rinse the conditioner when cowashing my hair is already feeling yuck.
My thoughts out loud: honey must balance the tea properly(?), so interesting taking notes. My hair freaks out when using tea. Perhaps not balancing as well as I thought.
I haven't added conditioners or leave-ins to the mix yet. I'm not sure that the teas would rinse off the cream base that makes up most of my conditioners and leave-ins. I wanted to give this line a fair chance.
Just in my little use of teas, I know it matters which teas I use. Her tea blends are formulated like her oil blends.
In 3 weeks I have really reduced my products but my results are really good so far.
Before I had
prepoo
shampoo
tea rinse
DC
leave-in,
oil
sealer
and all kinds of stuff to get me through the week which didn't work.
Now I have 3 products most weeks: oil free balm, honey balm and an oil. And I can now do my entire wash day regimen in 30 minutes versus the hours it was taking me before.
I'm still testing it out though. But this is the most promising progress I've had in 5 years.
If Noni was hear I would have to tell her that she was right all those years ago when she said I didn't need all that crap