My hair is natural (type 4) and as far as cleansers go, clay mixes are now a staple for me- at least rhassoul and bentonite clays. With regular use, over time I believe they've helped to regulate the way my hair absorbs water and products.
Ouidad Ultra Nourishing Cleansing Oil Shampoo is great for when I think clay won't be enough. I've used this diluted and undiluted with great effect and it doesn't over strip my hair.
The old formula of CON Argan Oil Shampoo was good to me too.
Protein: Mill Creek Organics Jojoba Conditioner. Silk amino acids (my hair loves). I know my low po hair likes hydrolyzed keratin so I'm not tempted to dabble with many other protein(s) out of fear of the dreaded overload.
I don't use conditioner for moisture much but when I do they tend to be diluted with warm water (from shower filter) and/or heated. It was a revelation to me that a good conditioner didn't have to be thick, creamy and luscious to work on my hair.
KCKT, Faith In Nature conditioners (without glycerin), SM Purification Masque (old packaging)- even though this has kaolin clay in it, it doesn't get my hair feeling clean like my clay mix so I use it like a DC.
Oils: Grapeseed (by far my favourite oil for hair and skin to date), wheatgerm, sunflower are all staples. I dabble with a few others.
Gels: I love KCCC, heavily diluted with water and a drop of ACV. Diluting it seems to be the way for me to avoid flakes. As I Am Curling Custard is good (gives a bit more volume and a slightly softer gel cast than KCCC).
I think that's it so far
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