Lost

[soldierforhair]

I am recently divorced to a man that I dearly love. I have 2 kids by him and recently we have been talking and trying to work things out. Through time I feel as if communication is becoming less and less. To make matters worst he is in Iraq. It seems as if I am doing all of the wrong things. We talk for the most part through e-mails, and yahoo messenger. I feel as if I can not truly show him my feelings towards him because of his location but he has a choice as to when he is coming back and he said he is coming back around July.

I have realized that I truly have no true friends and that is why I am turning to my friends on LHCF.

I pray about my situation daily and I truly feel LOST.

 

[Spin]

Sorry about your divorce. If he is as eager to reconcile as you are, then you should pursue it. However, if you feel you need to prove something to him, it may be an uphill battle. I hope you start feeling better soon. You should definitely focus on you and the kids for now.

 

[MsWowFactor]

It may not be as bad as what you think. Sometimes we worry and dwell over the unknown and start to actually make things worse. I would just continue to support him, let him know you love him and miss him and wait for him to come home to actually work on the relationship. Just keep yourself busy and think positive.

 

[CarolinaGal]

I can't imagine how you feel, but I'm sure it's difficult for him also because there is a lot going on. He has to stay focused on the tasks at hand in Iraq. Continue to support him and love him as best as you can. I hope you feel better but please try not stress yourself out too much.

>>>>hugs<<<<