Looser guys trying to win back women they did wrong too.

[LaShanne]

I dated a so-called "christian" for 4 months. In the beginning, he said all the right things, filled me up spiritually and what-not. I thought "wow, so soon after my divorce, have I found a contender?" I realized quickly that this "pretender" was an ego-maniacal, self-absorbed, woman-hater. I had to dump this loser with the quickness. Now he wont stop calling me and trying to talk to me after church. At least he hasn't come by my house. Have they no pride???

 

[Vinyl]

Same thing happened to me... Only I was the one who contacted him. It'd been a few months since the break-up; I was doing well with the help of a friend, had gotten my life together, etc. But I wasn't as over him as I thought, because as soon as he told me he still loved/wanted me back I fell into the same habits I had pre break-up.

I ended up losing my best friend over that, because she saw the difference of me with him/me without him like night and day and couldn't take being around me with him.

 

[Jerzeegirlinfla]

My ex wants me back but that is never going to happen.

He was dating me and another girl and going back and forth between our houses. Eventullay he got engaged to her and I found out by reading it in the newspaper.

They never made it to the altar and now he blows up my phone telling me how he made such a mistake...blah blah blah! Save it! It is like listening to the teacher on charlie brown cuz i dont understand a word he is saying.

 

[sky_blu]

It be's like that sometimes I think it takes rock bottom to truly get over someone you were in love with. I always have to have a long talk with myself (sounds crazy but its true) when Im at my whit ends then I cut all the BS and let it go. It just depends on when Im ready to let it go.

 

[sky_blu]

My ex wants me back but that is never going to happen.

He was dating me and another girl and going back and forth between our houses. Eventullay he got engaged to her and I found out by reading it in the newspaper.

They never made it to the altar and now he blows up my phone telling me how he made such a mistake...blah blah blah! Save it! It is like listening to the teacher on charlie brown cuz i dont understand a word he is saying.

LOL got this same thing happening to me. I think he wants me to tell him to leave her but Im not going to tell him that. They need to break up on their own because I will not be the cause of it and I dont want him thinking just because they broke up me and him could just get together like that again.

 

[Spongie Bloom]

the ex who broke my heart more than i actually thought was possible would call me or talk to me on msn talking bout how hes changed and how he misses me then i would talk about my bf (sometimes i wouldnt have one) just so he would get the picture then he would say in a huff well my gf will wonder where i am or something to that effect *insert roll eyes here* thank God i changed my number and blocked him from my msn...never would be too soon to see that guy again

 

[daydreem2876]

When i left my finally ex I had decided I was DONE!!!!! To me that is the difference between those who go back and those who don't. Sometimes you have to fall flat on to a$$ and crack you head before you decide you are better off without him. Unfortunately you girl is not there yet. No matter what friends tell you or what logically makes the most sense until YOU see that he is not worthy of you, some women will continue to do the same crap over and over again. I was blessed and fortunate though to have friends who loved and supported me the whole time, no matter how stupidly I behaved.

 

[Zuleika]

They come back when they realize how great your where to them and for them.
If you still have the same friends, word gets around she is doing good, looking good, just moving forward (they want A piece of your happiness)

I have an ex -- broke up in 89 or 90 and makes a point of asking friends about me.
He and I were in the same party last year. I avoided him like a bad disease.
This fool spent the entire night watching me across the room.
The next day his best friend comes by my mothers house, asked why I did not
come over and speak. Oh where you guys there??I did not know???
Was he there??? Did not know??? He must have gained a lot of weight (did know it was him) LMAO My husband came over and spoke??? Did not know??? (N---g Please)

These men have egos soooo big -- got the break that mess
Some men just want to Conquer you not love you.
Better learn which is which

 

[Zuleika]

Boy, I wish I could find him and re-dump him Y'all just don't understand how good it feels

:rofl3: Tis a wonderful feeling

 

[Zuleika]

Nope. It's a set up. He would dump you so hard you'll still be standding in the same spot with your mouth hanging open three days later
If he's changed, Praise God. Go be changed somewhere else

Amen and Amen!

 

[julzinha]

It's almost like men like that want to keep these women attached to them. They don't too much want you, but love the fact that you want them so much. And it is sickening and it is a hard cycle to break, but in order to prosper it has to be broken.

 

[FlowerHair]

All guys try to come back, not just the losers.
And I'm sick and tired of it

 

[LadyPaniolo]

FlowerHair you had me literally laughing out loud at that post...

Sometimes men think they are so hot to trot.... that they are missing out on living some wild life with wall to wall women... and they get to acting up. Then when you throw them out like 3 week old chinese food they realize. They're like "oh, wait. I haven't had a woman look in my direction in a month. Dammm. I messed up. Let me try to get my situation back together." No way!!!!

 

[FlowerHair]

FlowerHair you had me literally laughing out loud at that post...

Sometimes men think they are so hot to trot.... that they are missing out on living some wild life with wall to wall women... and they get to acting up. Then when you throw them out like 3 week old chinese food they realize. They're like "oh, wait. I haven't had a woman look in my direction in a month. Dammm. I messed up. Let me try to get my situation back together." No way!!!!

No.freaking.way!!!

 

[BillsBackerz67]

All guys try to come back, not just the losers.
And I'm sick and tired of it

If I was a guy Id be trying to come back to you too Lol but then again I wouldnt have screwed up in the first place. Men

 

[FlowerHair]

If I was a guy Id be trying to come back to you too Lol but then again I wouldnt have screwed up in the first place. Men

Thanks
You have no idea how bold some men are and how gullible a woman can be

Well, at least I can laugh at myself...

 

[lipyt]

this is a great thread and I (and I'm sure others too) needed to see this! Yesturday was his looser behind's bdayerplexed. This thread helped me to be strong so...bump!

 

[Latomian]

That's happening right now. I wouldn't consider my x to be a "loser," just an a*hole. Now that I've moved on and I'm doing well without him, I get these late night texts talking ab, "I want to be inside you," or "I wish you were here so I could hug you and feel better..." yada yada

All I'm thinking is, "Aren't you the same guy who said you didn't want me?" -or "Aren't you the same guy that cheated on me...countless times?"

I just kept it moving. Know what...maybe he is a loser.

 

[MissJ]

This thread is right on time. I just found out that one of my exes is not married like I thought he was. No wonder he keeps sending me greeting cards and even a post card from India where he was meeting the family of his wife-to-be. That didn't go over so well, obviously.

I swear, as soon as Michael Jackson died, they all came a-calling and e-mailing.

 

[LadyPaniolo]

Oh, no MissJ, do you think he was trying to treat you like Plan B???? that!

 

[ChasingBliss]

That reminds me. You've got to rerepresent him in your mind. He can no longer be thought of as that romantic love interest/intriguing male or anything else like that. We used to say that certain males lost their privaledges to a name. That was one of the best ways to start rerepresenting someone and presenting them in the light they are truly cast in.

For instance, my loser boyfriend no longer had the right to be called ____. He became what he actually was, "Mr. Phlegm". So whenever I spoke of him or thought of him, that is what I thought about. All my good friends and even my dh now refer to him as that.

LOVE IT.

 

[luckiestdestiny]

These men have egos soooo big -- got the break that mess
Some men just want to Conquer you not love you.
Better learn which is which [/QUOTE]


This statement is sooo true!

 

[NinaDetoxProductsLLC_CEO]

WOW THERE'S A SUBJECT ABOUT THIS on here ? and i just got an emaillll what should i do

 

[MissJ]

Oh, no MissJ, do you think he was trying to treat you like Plan B???? that!

No, he's been doing all those things since 2003.

I guess after the thing with his fiancee and her family didn't work out, he thought he'd try again. I guess he knows how I feel now.

 

[Samory07]

This is happening to me right now. My loser ex had me for about two and a half years. He used to cheat on me, lie to my face, you name it, he probably did it. But I lubbbeedd him so I stayed. Well one night some girl called my phone and left a me a voicemail saying that he was hers now...he never called to apologize or explain anything. After that I was too through, I gave myself one time to cry and after that I moved on.

Now two years later after he moved back home he sees that I'm doing well, working full time, going to school full time, being independent. Now it's "I miss you, I love you, I was wrong, I need you" I just laugh in his face and k.i.m. I called Verizon and had his numbers blocked, and I plan on ignoring him for the rest of my days

 

[Spiffy]

This is happening to me right now. My loser ex had me for about two and a half years. He used to cheat on me, lie to my face, you name it, he probably did it. But I lubbbeedd him so I stayed. Well one night some girl called my phone and left a me a voicemail saying that he was hers now...he never called to apologize or explain anything. After that I was too through, I gave myself one time to cry and after that I moved on.

Now two years later after he moved back home he sees that I'm doing well, working full time, going to school full time, being independent. Now it's "I miss you, I love you, I was wrong, I need you" I just laugh in his face and k.i.m. I called Verizon and had his numbers blocked, and I plan on ignoring him for the rest of my days

Oh...you can do that now? I've heard of people with restraining orders that could not get individual cell numbers blocked from their phone.