ellegantelle
Well-Known Member
So I will be getting married next year and I am trying to prepare myself emotionally, financially, and in many more ways for this change in my life. One of the things that has been on my mind are the friendships I have. I am friends with a group of women and we have been friends since high school. Most of them have been in long term relationships (7+ years) and aren't married (which is fine, no judgement from me). The problem with this is that they harbor a bit of negativity because of what they have experienced in their relationships. I also find that they lack in bringing the positivity that my fh and I am looking for, whereas his friend (who will be proposing to his girlfriend soon) constantly speaks positivity on us and our relationship.
Last thing I wanted to mention is: I have noticed that a lot of marriage books I'm reading suggest having at least one married friend though.
Is this important? Do you ladies that are married have friends that aren't married?
Last thing I wanted to mention is: I have noticed that a lot of marriage books I'm reading suggest having at least one married friend though.
Is this important? Do you ladies that are married have friends that aren't married?