Hi Lonei,
1st conrgats on your wedding. You looked so beautiful, and those curls are gorgeous! My hair goes through that same thing...and it drives me crazy. I just trimmed 2" a week ago because I like the look of blunt ends because I wear my hair straight most of the time. But, I would say that if you wear it curly most of the time, then just leave it where it is. It's healthy and that is what matters most.