OK ladies, I need advice. I'm back in contact with my college boyfriend. He was my 1st love and I also my 1st lover. I have not seen him or talk to him since I graduated in 1999 (we broke up in 1997 a few months before his graduation). We recently reconnected about 3 months ago. I now live in Atlanta, GA and he lives in Charlotte, NC. We are both from Florida and met at University of Florida. We have been talking on the phone for hours but have yet to meet in person. Yesterday, he threw for a loop when he suddenly asked me to borrow some money. I was very uncomfortable but agreed to wire him the money today. I decided to talk it over with my best friend, who told me that I should have said no. I'm having 2nd thought and just want to call him to tell him that I changed my mind. I know, we had a personal relationship over 14 years ago but I have not seen him for almost 12 years. We are able to have personal conversations since we were in an intimate relationship for almost 2 years. I can't even picture myself asking him for money at this point of our relationship. Yes, back then, when we were broke college kids, I gave him money but now the man is 35 years old.
I need to hear from people who are not personally involve. What would you do?
I need to hear from people who are not personally involve. What would you do?