Living in the moment

[Helpmeblongagain]

Is it hard for you to "live in the moment" with someone you really like?

Are you able to "talk" to a guy for months without being in a relationship?

 

[Bunny77]

How many months are we talking about here?

Three months is my limit for "talking" to a man. Poo or get off the pot!

 

[Helpmeblongagain]

How many months are we talking about here?

Three months is my limit for "talking" to a man. Poo or get off the pot!

LOL!! I think Im with you on that....

I recently starting "talking" to someone and ummm...idk if I hes some1 I can talk to for months w/o catching feelings...which worries me because we're in too diff locations...

BUT Im keeping my guard WAYYYYYY up...and kinda hoping he bores me sooner or later...

I may just b jumping the gun...but hes some1 I'd seriously consider dating...

 

[Bunny77]

I know the feeling!

I think the key is not to give him too much of your time if you're just talking. Sure you can date and go out with him, but no chillin' at folks' cribs, spending the night, all that stuff... stay busy with your own life and friends and even date a few other dudes to not be so focused on this one guy.

And if he's the right guy for you, then he will step up to make things more official than "talking." But you have to keep the pace slow so that you don't catch too many feelings.

Good luck!

 

[Helpmeblongagain]

I know the feeling!

I think the key is not to give him too much of your time if you're just talking. Sure you can date and go out with him, but no chillin' at folks' cribs, spending the night, all that stuff... stay busy with your own life and friends and even date a few other dudes to not be so focused on this one guy.

And if he's the right guy for you, then he will step up to make things more official than "talking." But you have to keep the pace slow so that you don't catch too many feelings.

Good luck!

I agree...thanx


O n I noticed some typos in last post...kinda iggs me so...*started and *two