TokyoReina
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It's like this...I was eating lunch with a guy at the mall. He asks me where I see myself, and us, in five years. I've known him all of two weeks at this point. I say to him "Not with You." He was slightly offended, but there was a picture of me ,within my head, in five years and he was not in it. After that, we were walking past the jewelry store and he stopped and asked me what I'd say if he asked me to marry him. I told him "I'd say No." He asked me what was wrong with him that I wouldn't want to marry him.
I was talking about this experience with a friend mine and we started talking about what was considered too honest when talking to guys. I've always been called a frank/too honest person, but I really don't know what else to do! I can't keep my answer to myself because I feel like a big liar. Anyone else have this problem? What can I do? I don't want to come off as rude or hurtful, but I don't want to lie.
I was talking about this experience with a friend mine and we started talking about what was considered too honest when talking to guys. I've always been called a frank/too honest person, but I really don't know what else to do! I can't keep my answer to myself because I feel like a big liar. Anyone else have this problem? What can I do? I don't want to come off as rude or hurtful, but I don't want to lie.