Your daughter isn't just another woman. It's repugnant to think of the man you love sexually desiring your child. I don't know how you would move forward knowing that.
I'm not saying it is ludicrous, but it certainly is disturbing for the mother no matter how we try and put it. Rationale wouldnt come into it when thinking of your man and your baby girl.
Also it's not safe for her ever if he feels he cannot control himself in confined spaces with her. Stepfathers 8 times more likely to make a sexual move on your child.
THANK YOU!Fellas... your 23 year old son moves back home with you and your girlfriend. Your girl says that being around your son and his gray shorts is too much pressure on her and is very tempting. She then says that she needs to move out and will move back once he leaves. Is she wrong? (especially if the outline puts dad to shame)
Thank you for what? Lol If a woman came to her man, and admitted that she was lusting after his son to the point that she was so hot and bothered she had to leave, I promise you she'd be demoted to *** status in his mind. She'd either be told to get to stepping or be told to gone ahead and get her some. I don't know why y'all think men have all the right answers.
I think most parents would have already told their daughter to put some clothes on or their son to put on some draws from jump. The problem is your SO admitting that their desire for you child has gotten so uncontrollable that they need to leave. There is no coming back from that for me.
Right! They should go their separate ways. Nobody is to blame here as long as lines haven't been crossed. I would respect him for his honesty, but I couldn't be with a man that openly admitted to being attracted to my child. Even though she is an adult, she is still my baby. And I would go into protective mode.
Her moving out wouldn't change the fact that he wanted to have sex with your daughter. What's gonna happen during holidays, birthdays, grandchildren visits, family vacations? I'm telling you it will change the entire dynamic. Don't put too much weight on the daughter's clothes. You can see that booty two miles away!
The daughter living in the house doesn't matter. It's all on the man. That man needs to decide in his brain if his relationship is worth ruining. But I have seen this play out and majority of the time the mother choose the man, then it changes the family relationship. He couldn't be a part of her family life, and she will always have to compromise . He can't come to family functions, the daughter can't come over when he is there, etc.. you would never truly trust him and you just might become resentful of her.
Do you really think those clothes have that much power? If she put on a loose jogging suit, do you think he wouldn't get aroused? And married ain't got nothing to do with it! Husbands do crap like that as well! They will pull it with sisters, cousins, nieces, etc...
Nobody said that the mom shouldn't have a man! Where are you getting that from? It's the man's fault and him not having self control. The daughter is totally off limits! This is your woman's child! This could be your stepdaughter!
Where the man went wrong was not controlling himself and he actually came out and said it! People look and lust all of the time! But we all have the ability to resist temptation! That's what separates us from the animals! He let you know that he wanna have sex with your daughter, so now you are gonna be cool with staying with him? And regardless of if a child is a child or an adult, that's still your kid. And if I got a man that's suppose to look out for me and mine and he let me know he doesn't consider my daughter family, then we got a problem.
I didn't say your dad hit on you. You went there, I said it doesn't matter and everybody isn't immune to this issue, just because your parents are married. If you haven't experienced that, cool. You got personal, not me.
It is completely unreasonable to expect a man to feel familial toward a grown woman he don't know from no where and who keeps waving ass in his face. Like, come on, now. Dis tew much.
