ThickHair,
This is exactly what he said:
I guess we both felt the same way at the same time, but we somehow did not convey it in our interaction. I did want to have a relationship with you but I was scared that we would be so far away from each other and I did not know if it would work out. Many times at Columbia I questioned whether I should have just stayed in Atlanta and gone to Ga Tech. It was like a tradeoff between getting the education I wanted and pursuing the girl I loved. It was a tough choice. The only reason why I did not call a lot is because you never gave me your number. All I had was an email, and I did email you, but you took a long time to respond. Also I would write 10 lines or more to you and you would just respond with 2 lines. After a while it made me feel like you just weren't interested in me anymore. This was hurtful to me since we had spent so much time together before I left and we had grown so close.
But speaking of love. Do you also remember the time when I was in grad school (around 2003) when you called one night and I told you that I loved you and played the song "Miss You" by Aaliyah for you. You told me clearly that you did not feel the same way about me and you just wanted to be friends, which hurt me a lot. You called me back and then you told me that you never wanted to talk to me again if I couldn't be friends with you. Do you remember?? That was really tough for me; and then after that you disappeared for 8 years. I waited and waited and prayed and prayed to hear from you. But as the time passed I figured you had been married and that I was waiting in vain. So eventually I moved on and now I am about to get engaged. And now after all this time you reappeared again...and like the wind you have disappeared again. I don't get it, why?