SummerSolstice
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Things like this used to bother me, but I think I have grown out of it.
I love to salsa, bachata, and merengue. My boyfriend is just not interested He tried once and he said he felt gay
On top of that he is very introverted. I am too, but I was a gymnast and a singer, so I still have that performer element. I don't like large groups of people, but I don't mind doing any form of art in front of them.
Anyways, I really want a consistent salsa partner. My ex's best friend and I run into each other quite often. I have always found him attractive but not emotionally or anything. I saw him yesterday and we talked about my website because he said he thought I had lost weight. So I told him it was new food choices and the latin dancing.
Today, I am going to salsa because me and my boyfriend are doing Valentines Day tomorrow. His lil brother's senior game is tonight. I was texting my ex's bestie and he was saying he would like to learn too, so we might go together this evening.
Is this wrong of me? I wouldn't keep this a secret from my boyfriend. I gave him the opportunity to be my dance partner and he doesn't want to do it. Is having an attractive straight guy friend as a consistent dance partner sketchy to you?
Also, just an additional detail... The night my boyfriend joined me, he went to the bar and watched some basketball games and told me to go ahead and dance with other peopel. I danced with like 6 other guys. Some of the dancing was bachata and I do get into it lol. He was looking like erplexed but he didn't say he wanted me not to do it.
I don't know, what do you guys think. I want to be a good girlfriend.
I love to salsa, bachata, and merengue. My boyfriend is just not interested He tried once and he said he felt gay
On top of that he is very introverted. I am too, but I was a gymnast and a singer, so I still have that performer element. I don't like large groups of people, but I don't mind doing any form of art in front of them.
Anyways, I really want a consistent salsa partner. My ex's best friend and I run into each other quite often. I have always found him attractive but not emotionally or anything. I saw him yesterday and we talked about my website because he said he thought I had lost weight. So I told him it was new food choices and the latin dancing.
Today, I am going to salsa because me and my boyfriend are doing Valentines Day tomorrow. His lil brother's senior game is tonight. I was texting my ex's bestie and he was saying he would like to learn too, so we might go together this evening.
Is this wrong of me? I wouldn't keep this a secret from my boyfriend. I gave him the opportunity to be my dance partner and he doesn't want to do it. Is having an attractive straight guy friend as a consistent dance partner sketchy to you?
Also, just an additional detail... The night my boyfriend joined me, he went to the bar and watched some basketball games and told me to go ahead and dance with other peopel. I danced with like 6 other guys. Some of the dancing was bachata and I do get into it lol. He was looking like erplexed but he didn't say he wanted me not to do it.
I don't know, what do you guys think. I want to be a good girlfriend.