Yep, I read your earlier posts. I would never reply to someone's post without doing that. But this is a lonnnng thread, 18 pages, so I could have missed something. So I just went through all 18 pages AGAIN, and I did find this one quote from you. "I love my relaxed hair, and think it's beautiful, but I also love my naps." I did not find one quote where you actually said that natural hair was beautiful, not one. My point is just that you do not seem like you are passionate about natural hair and like I said that is fine if that is the case but I believe you have to be passionate about something if you intend to be a motivating force on the subject. That is all.
And please don't think of my posts as another natural putting down a relaxed head. This is my opinion about your particular posts in this thread. Since joining LHCF I have encountered many relaxed heads who seem to LOVE and EMBRACE their natural hair, they seem to cherish it even though they choose to relax and prefer straight styles, etc. And I've come across many naturals on here who seem to love and adore silky, straight relaxed hair but simply prefer to wear their hair in its natural state. So, yes I think it is possible for naturals to appreciate relaxed hair and relaxed women to appreciate natural hair, I just don't get from your posts that you feel that way.
My teenaged daughter is relaxed, I take her every 8 weeks or so to get her hair relaxed. It is silky and pretty and long and I tell her so all of the time. I've also told her that if she ever wants to transition, just say the word, and I will help her. At the moment she is not interested. My younger daughter is natural and I am equally passionate about her hair. We play in her hair and talk about how pretty, springy, healthy and long it is.
If I am misunderstanding your posts, I apologize, but when I read through your posts and realized that you did not once say that natural hair was beautiful but instead chose to say that it wasn't ugly, I was offended. And when you seemed so passionate about "not" celebrating natural hair, I felt compelled to say something.