It happended twice this week

[ThickHair]

Oh my, I met 2 guys earlier this week (seperate occassions of course), we made idle chit chat and at the end they ask for my number and said they would call. Dude #1 had even sent me a text msg to let me know that he was the guy I had just met and would have his number for when he called "later". Never heard from him, and just straight didn't hear a peep from #2.

My only question is why waste my time? I only have 15 minute break and both took up 10 minutes of them and then I went back to work. NINJA'S. They eliminated themselves and saved me some grief I guess.

 

[prettynatural]

Some men are lazy and insecure, they would rather have you to pursue them. Or they are in a relationship and want to see if they still "got it". Either way, they did you a favor.

I am a firm believer that if a man wants something he will go for it.

 

[ThickHair]

Some men are lazy and insecure, they would rather have you to pursue them. Or they are in a relationship and want to see if they still "got it". Either way, they did you a favor.

I am a firm believer that if a man wants something he will go for it.

That is why I don't take numbers, the pursuing issue.

The thing is I have had conversations with men that didn't end with them asking for my number. I am cool with that. Nice meeting ya KIM.

 

[Love Always]

Thank you for saying this. I had a guy last week asking me to take down his number so we could 'fellowship" . I ain't calling no dude, if he was really that interested in me he would ask for my number and pursue me, not the other way around.

Some men are lazy and insecure, they would rather have you to pursue them. Or they are in a relationship and want to see if they still "got it". Either way, they did you a favor.

I am a firm believer that if a man wants something he will go for it.

 

[CarLiTa]

Getting numbers is an ego boost. Also, they don't know they wasted your time... Are they aware that your break is only 15mins? I guess if they are, sure...

 

[hopeful]

Keep putting yourself out there. Some ladies aren't having convos or being asked for their numbers. Just keep a whatever attitude after they ask for your number. If they call, they call. But sounds like you are on the right track to me.

 

[ThickHair]

Getting numbers is an ego boost. Also, they don't know they wasted your time... Are they aware that your break is only 15mins? I guess if they are, sure...

LOL No, they have no idea because they don't know me. After I gave my number, I told them both that I had to go.

Yeah, it is an ego boost.

Keep putting yourself out there. Some ladies aren't having convos or being asked for their numbers. Just keep a whatever attitude after they ask for your number. If they call, they call. But sounds like you are on the right track to me.

Yes, I am still working on being out a bit more. Oh, last night I had an itch to dance, so I rolled out the house at 10p and danced at the spot until 1a. No numbers, but I had a blast. I am still tired. I am going out in a bit, one of my sister\friend birthday.