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Since I just really set definable goals this year in regards to length, I'm going to say that if I'm anywhere in the vicinity of bra-strap by the year's end, I will consider myself to have achieved a monumental feat (.......especially since I don't seem to have developed much of a hair care regimen, etc.)

 
since i've never been at shoulder length, once i reach i will be to stoosh for ANYONE to talk to "cho, beg pardon, a mi yu a chat to, mi too cute fi yu man, NEXT!!" after that if i can get brastrap just consider me stink, waistlength STANK and a hot mess
 
1st I want my bra-strap- I will be alright.
but I want my mid back
...I want girls to look at my hair and wonder if it is weave. Then I will flip my hair (white girl style) to say "and what, yes it's mine..."...:lachen:
 
brownsugar9999 said:
Girl...if I can get to Sherrylove's length....I'd be a mess!!!!!

atlien and brownsugar9999, you girls are a mess....smile...

I do not allow the length of my hair to affect my self esteem.... i know i was the sh** with short hair, and I know i am still the sh** now with long hair.... LOL......
 
atlien said:
you will think you are all of that and a bag of snacks with the chips and the dip? I would say yes for myself! If I could get my hair to the middle of my back (healthy) like 4 inches past bra strap, OH MY GOD, no one would be able to tell me anything. So do you have a hair length that would just give you a big self esteem boost?

I totally agree with you on this one. Healthy hair 4" past bra strap will be the bomb. My smile would be a mile wide. :D
 
SherryLove said:
atlien and brownsugar9999, you girls are a mess....smile...

I do not allow the length of my hair to affect my self esteem.... i know i was the sh** with short hair, and I know i am still the sh** now with long hair.... LOL......
You know what...me neither...BUT I WILL BE THE BIIIIIG SHYTE!!!!!:lachen: I'll be flingin' like I have LOST MY MIND!!!
 
OMG HEALTHY,NATURAL MID-BACK.......NOBODY WOULD BE ABLE TO TELL ME ANYTHING...I'D BE LOOKIN LIKE ONE OF THE BRADY BUNCH GIRLS...WALKIN CRAZY AND SWINGING MY HEAD L0L....NOBODY COULD PUT THEIR HANDS ON ME L0L
 
With APL stretched I would think I'm all that:D Only because there are so many people who think my hair doesn't grow past chin length because I wasn't treating it right when I had a relaxer. Now that I'm natural and I'm taking good care of my hair, it's growing like a weed. When it gets to APL I might press it just to show it off to all the people who thought my hair couldn't get that long :lachen: :lachen:
 
Armpit length, b/c if it ever got that far, then I would KNOW that I could reach my ultimate goal of brastrap length.

If I ever got to be brastrap, I would have to fall on my knees and thank the Lord Jesus. Cause right now brastrap is one of those things that seems impossible!

With brastrap I would be UNSTOPPABLE. Nobody could tell me a thing. And if they tried to, I'd swing my hair in their face... Then I'd have to repent and send them to LHCF...:lol:
 
I used to say that about waist length...but now I've changed my goal.
If I can get to hip length stretched...WOW!!!
Unfortunately my hair seems to have stopped growing at waist length.
I'm pretty sure though, that if my hair would grow to hip length, I would probably change my goal because I suffer from a severe case of hair anorexia.
 
i would love to see what my hair looked like at bsl curly...that would be awesome :yep: but would take a looooooooong time :nono:
 
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Recherché.Beauty said:
OMG HEALTHY,NATURAL MID-BACK.......NOBODY WOULD BE ABLE TO TELL ME ANYTHING...I'D BE LOOKIN LIKE ONE OF THE BRADY BUNCH GIRLS...WALKIN CRAZY AND SWINGING MY HEAD L0L....NOBODY COULD PUT THEIR HANDS ON ME L0L
:lachen: :lachen: :lachen: Marsha Marsha Marsha!!!!!!
 
atlien said:
you will think you are all of that and a bag of snacks with the chips and the dip? I would say yes for myself! If I could get my hair to the middle of my back (healthy) like 4 inches past bra strap, OH MY GOD, no one would be able to tell me anything. So do you have a hair length that would just give you a big self esteem boost?

Honestly, I think I have "hair anorexia" and will never be satisfied. I am currently at armpit. (it WAS modest, and now, it's a bonafied apl WITH my newgrowth). I still feel like I am working with the same amount of hair I had when it was just brushing my shoulders! :eek: I think no matter how long it gets, I will always see it as shorter than it is.
 
CantBeCopied said:
Honestly, I think I have "hair anorexia" and will never be satisfied. I am currently at armpit. (it WAS modest, and now, it's a bonafied apl WITH my newgrowth). I still feel like I am working with the same amount of hair I had when it was just brushing my shoulders! :eek: I think no matter how long it gets, I will always see it as shorter than it is.


I agree with you 1000%!!!
 
CantBeCopied said:
Honestly, I think I have "hair anorexia" and will never be satisfied. I am currently at armpit. (it WAS modest, and now, it's a bonafied apl WITH my newgrowth). I still feel like I am working with the same amount of hair I had when it was just brushing my shoulders! :eek: I think no matter how long it gets, I will always see it as shorter than it is.

I feel ya girl, I always see myself with shoulder length hair!
 
If I could get to the length in my avatar pic I'd be so happy! Nobody could tell me NOTHING and I probably would be slightly stuck up!
 
Cincysweetie said:
If I could get to the length in my avatar pic I'd be so happy! Nobody could tell me NOTHING and I probably would be slightly stuck up!
I ain't mad at ya!!!! Shoot, I might be walking behind you FLIPPIN' it 4 ya!!!
 
I am just grateful for where I am at now. I never really cared for obtaining long hair. I just like my hair to have lot's of body and curl. I knew I was on the right track when I went to check into my hotel and the black girl behind the counter kept staring at me. I had no idea she was checking out my hair until she told me that my hair was so pretty and inquired where and what I was doing. I guess she was not used to seeing hair actually move.

I would kill for Terry Ellis Ross's hair. All in life would be good.
 
michelle3147 said:
I am just grateful for where I am at now. I never really cared for obtaining long hair. I just like my hair to have lot's of body and curl. I knew I was on the right track when I went to check into my hotel and the black girl behind the counter kept staring at me. I had no idea she was checking out my hair until she told me that my hair was so pretty and inquired where and what I was doing. I guess she was not used to seeing hair actually move.

I would kill for Terry Ellis Ross's hair. All in life would be good.
Girl..I want to be mistaken for Cousin It!
 
michelle3147 said:
I am just grateful for where I am at now. I never really cared for obtaining long hair. I just like my hair to have lot's of body and curl. I

I agree with you. Even though I am not at the length that I want, I love the body and curl I get with my hair now that it is healthy and thick. I will be happy at shoulder length, but I will just let my hair do its thing and grow as long as it is healthy with lot's of body and curl.

BTW, your hair is very pretty. I love it and your progress.
 
atlien said:
you will think you are all of that and a bag of snacks with the chips and the dip? I would say yes for myself! If I could get my hair to the middle of my back (healthy) like 4 inches past bra strap, OH MY GOD, no one would be able to tell me anything. So do you have a hair length that would just give you a big self esteem boost?

Well I thought that would be waist length hair but now that I'm there. It's kind of just "BLAH". I don't know what I thought would happen. Maybe a party, champagne maybe :look: :lol: I don't know BUT I did think my life would be somewhat better..not sure HOW or in what way but it's still the same...lol. Oh well...it's all good. It took getting to waist length to realize the self esteem is either there or it's NOT. Having hair or not won't do it. But ain't nothing wrong with HAVING IT :look: :lol:
 
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