And how far are you from that goal? It seems like everyone is an inch or two from bra strap or aiming towards waist length. It is making me feel a little discouraged. My goal is shoulder length and I hope (crossing fingers) that I will be there by February 2004 at the latest. Right now my hair is around 13 inches, roughly 2-3 inches away from shoulder length. Where are all of the above shoulder length women?