Brit031586
Well-Known Member
Ok so my Best friend was in a relationship for about 5 years she broke up with that SO and was with the next within a week about a year or 2 ago he went to jail and she decided to move to another state for school she said they were broken up but she still came home and visited him and accepted his calls.
so she meets this other guy who is about 4 years younger (shes 25) she's all in love and everything BLAH BLAH BLAH he moves back to his home state because of financial problems but she decides she wants him to stay so she allows him to move in with her ( he has no job and isnt in school at the time) now she was working fulltime and going to school but had to quit her job in order to graduate on time so he went back to his old job not making much money.
Fast forward to now she just gave birth to twins by him and while she was pregnant she caught him talking and trying to hang out with other girls on 3 different occasions also he goes out almost every night in HER car leaving her at home alone(mind you her mom pays her car note and insurance and they well she always has to borrow the rent money) one night while she was pregnant n he was out she asked him to bring her dinner and he told her she should go ahead and WALK to the store!
when she tells me this stuff I just dont know what to say because im just in shock... What would you ladies tell her?? Also in the previous relationship she was in the guy who is in jail had a son who loved her she used to get him and take care of him all the time her family even loved the little boy who is now about 8 she's known him since he was about 3 when she got a new SO she completly cut the child out of her life even tho she still hung out with him when she and his dad were not together... The child calls her and but she never talks to him or sees him oh but she did call his mom when she needed her hair done for free!
so she meets this other guy who is about 4 years younger (shes 25) she's all in love and everything BLAH BLAH BLAH he moves back to his home state because of financial problems but she decides she wants him to stay so she allows him to move in with her ( he has no job and isnt in school at the time) now she was working fulltime and going to school but had to quit her job in order to graduate on time so he went back to his old job not making much money.
Fast forward to now she just gave birth to twins by him and while she was pregnant she caught him talking and trying to hang out with other girls on 3 different occasions also he goes out almost every night in HER car leaving her at home alone(mind you her mom pays her car note and insurance and they well she always has to borrow the rent money) one night while she was pregnant n he was out she asked him to bring her dinner and he told her she should go ahead and WALK to the store!
when she tells me this stuff I just dont know what to say because im just in shock... What would you ladies tell her?? Also in the previous relationship she was in the guy who is in jail had a son who loved her she used to get him and take care of him all the time her family even loved the little boy who is now about 8 she's known him since he was about 3 when she got a new SO she completly cut the child out of her life even tho she still hung out with him when she and his dad were not together... The child calls her and but she never talks to him or sees him oh but she did call his mom when she needed her hair done for free!
Last edited: