Is it ok to ask?

[locabouthair]

I'd ask and wouldnt feel bad about it. If my man was a ho, I'd wanna know cause I dont wanna be with someone who sleeps with any and every woman.

 

[illustrioussplendor]

When Dh and I were dating I did ask before we were ever intimate, and I have asked every guy that I've had sex with. It was important to me to know what type of history he has had, even though I realize that I may have not always gotten honest answers. I also keep in mind that everyone has a past, some irresponsibility in their younger days. For example the player that matures and wants to settle down.

 

[Imani]

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[sky_blu]

This is a question I would never ask again because after everything is said and done is irrelevant to "us". As long as I know his health status thats all I need to know.