LovelyNaps26
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I've cooled off a bit but I'm still upset. One of my girls from church Lisa* just called to let me know that one of our other friends, Jane, informed her that she likes her ex-boyfriend Rick and wants to pursue a relationship with him. Knowing Jane, she and Rick have been talking and she's more than likely decided to date Rick but just wanted to run it pass Lisa. Jane knew that Lisa and Rick dated and that Rick broke the relationship off. Of all the guys that Jane could have dated....forget that even if there weren't other guys I feel like to date her friend's ex is wrong. I know there is no godly reason per se, why Jane shouldn't be allowed to date Rick. Still, it just makes me feel some kind of a way.
The next time I see Jane all I'll think is that if I had dated someone and broken up with him she'd have no issue dating him. Lisa was clear in explaining to Jane that her decision to date Rick will change their relationship. However, what I don't think Jane realizes is other friends, myself included, will have a different view of her. I know Christians have views on certain relationship issues (i.e. pre-marital sex) but, I feel like the "don't date a friend's ex" is a universal code that a lot of folks subscribe to.
What do you think? Am I over-reacting by feeling upset with my friend Jane? Is it fine to date a friend's ex?
(Lisa and Rick broke up last year and Rick and Jane just met a month ago. Jane was out of the country during Lisa's relationship BUT knew that they dated)
*The names of my friends have been changed.
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What do you think? Am I over-reacting by feeling upset with my friend Jane? Is it fine to date a friend's ex?
(Lisa and Rick broke up last year and Rick and Jane just met a month ago. Jane was out of the country during Lisa's relationship BUT knew that they dated)
*The names of my friends have been changed.