ambergirl
Well-Known Member
Here's a friend's dilemma.
Married for over a decade. Compatible in many ways but no sex in years. Elementary school age son. Through a work event, recently reconnected with an old beau and.....well...you know.
Now all of those feelings she was trying to supress are back in force. She doesn't want to end the marriage but despite gentle cajoling and therapy he is still not interested in sex. He's home every night so we're pretty sure he's not stepping.
So what would you do? Other then no sex the marriage is good and he's a great father. But she's having a hard time imagining living the rest of her life without sex.
ETA: By the way, he's a good decade or more older then her so she's thinking the lack of sex drive just may be an aging thing.
Married for over a decade. Compatible in many ways but no sex in years. Elementary school age son. Through a work event, recently reconnected with an old beau and.....well...you know.
Now all of those feelings she was trying to supress are back in force. She doesn't want to end the marriage but despite gentle cajoling and therapy he is still not interested in sex. He's home every night so we're pretty sure he's not stepping.
So what would you do? Other then no sex the marriage is good and he's a great father. But she's having a hard time imagining living the rest of her life without sex.
ETA: By the way, he's a good decade or more older then her so she's thinking the lack of sex drive just may be an aging thing.
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