Miss*Tress
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Ever since stopping heat styling and brushing, my hair has reached never-before-possible lengths. Heat especially used to break my ends off really badly. More power to those who get good results with heat though.
I believe it. While I might not have been in the same situation as you, there was a time I got really lazy with my hair (especially when I got caught up in doing my medical research) and while I would still put oil moisturizer and such on my hair, I never used heat because I didn't have time to blow dry or flat iron and my hair looked a HOT MESS (no pun intended) and started breaking like crazy. Just look at the pic on my myspace:Blossssom said:What did I do? Started working blowouts and straightening my hair. The heat actually CURED my fried hair! Believe THAT!
Blossssom said:Just like heat, the comb is not your enemy either. It's the way you're combing your hair that is your enemy.
I don't know if Sylver's around today, but can someone post her regimen or direct me to it?
Thanks.
Blossssom said:I've actually taken to mixing my heat protectant with my oils.
Qetesh said:I don’t agree I think our hair is stronger thus able to put up with all the relaxing flat ironing ext in nature, but of course we pay the price for that as well.
I don’t think our hair is any weaker, but more prone to tangles if left the way other races can leave there hear with no heat ext. basically our hair IMO is dryer needs more moisture and is more prone to tangles breakage, but in its natural state is NOT weaker than other races.
To the topic of this thread I feel too much heat is defiantly bad for your hair I stunted my growth from hot curling daily just because my hair can “hold†a lot of heat in no way means its good for it.
Now because our hair is prone to tangles which leads to breakage if you can keep it untangled without heat that is the best route BUT if you must use heat I can understand why some find better results from this, this and if done sparingly and properly I feel your hair can manage it.
I know white girls who have broken their hair off from heat as well so it’s not only AA that this can happen to, too much heat is not good for any hair type.
navsegda said:I'll admit I used to have this problem--not knowing how to comb my hair. But I've gotten much better at it now and I have almost no breakage when I comb.
Bublnbrnsuga said:I don't agree. I remember when I used to comb my hair daily, I combed it the 'right' way and my ends were always limp and straight. Since I don't comb often now, my ends are so thick and healthy. Sylver2 barely combs her hair too and just look at it!
Miss*Tress said:Ever since stopping heat styling and brushing, my hair has reached never-before-possible lengths. Heat especially used to break my ends off really badly. More power to those who get good results with heat though.
Blossssom said:Sylver, GET IN HERE!
Heehee!
LocksOfLuV said:LMFAO! I know Sylver's regimen like the back of my hand. She doesn't comb. She ties her hair up at night and int he morning she takes off the scarf and fixed her hair. She doesn't comb. I am such a stalker!
Treasure2k6 said:I know it sounds weird...but I guess the old saying is "Different Strokes for Different Folks."
Blossssom said:So how does she "style" her hair? Just with her fingers? A careful "arrangement", if you will? Heehee!
LocksOfLuV said:Well her hair is already styled before she puts on the scarf. It is usually parted and down. She just puts the scarf on at night to protect it and lay it flat and she tucks the ends inside the scarf. So, in the morning she just used her fingers to kinda get it together. She wears her hair down straight or in a braidout most of the time.
Gawd, I need a life.
Blossssom said:Haha! You don't need a life.
But that doesn't make sense. I've seen Sylver's hair and it's very straight. It wouldn't be straight if she "tucked the ends" into the scarf.
How did she get the part down the middle? Sure I can manipulate my hair with my fingers to some degree, but I can't part it.
Blossssom said:Sylver, GET IN HERE!
Heehee!
sylver2 said:did someone say my name..lol
Okay let me see...I use heat once a month summers and twice a month during the winter..blow dry and light flat iron. but other then on wash/dry days I do not touch my hair.
Locksoflov (hey girl was right I never ever comb xcept on wash day. When I get ready for bed my hair is already parted in the style I want. I leave hair down and completely out. I tie Satin scarf on with the back of my hair hanging out and down. Then I swoop up the back of my hair and lightly tuck that part into an oversized Satin bonnet leaving the bonnet halfway on head.. I go to sleep. Wake up take off bonnet, take off scarf and hair is exactly like I left it. I pat over with hand and Go..lol
sprungonhairboards said:Of course she uses a comb for that blossom goodness
The thing is, after she washes and does her hair, combs, blow drys, parts, etc. she doesnt do it again until her next wash. I do the same thing, it's not as difficult as it sounds.
DulceKisses said:For me constant heat thinned my hair. It remained shiny, bouncey and strong but it wasnt as thick as Im used too. I love the flat iron look and would "refresh" every 2 days and only wash once a week but would use heat protectants. My sister who has the same hair type as me loves flat ironing too. Her hair remained thick with constant heat usage. We have discovered the difference between our flat iron regimens is that my sister would moisturize and condition more frequently than I would. She flat ironed every other day but would wash, mositurize and condition every 3-4 days.
I didnt moisturize because I felt moisture would destroy my flat iron look. But
I can say her method proved to be successful for me.
I also see my hair idol from One Life to Live (Renee Goldsberry) seems to keep a flat ironed look and her hair appears to be "healthy and thick". Maybe there is consistance hope as far as heat goes. But I dont disagree that the hair is much healthier with out it.
sylver2 said:did someone say my name..lol
Okay let me see...I use heat once a month summers and twice a month during the winter..blow dry and light flat iron. Braidouts all the other times.
... but other then on wash/dry days I do not touch my hair.
Locksofluv (hey girl was right I never ever comb xcept on wash day.
When I get ready for bed my hair is already parted in the style I want.
I leave hair down and completely out. I tie Satin scarf on with the back of my hair hanging out and down. Then I swoop up the back of my hair and lightly tuck that part into an oversized Satin bonnet leaving the bonnet halfway on head..
I go to sleep. Wake up take off bonnet, take off scarf and hair is exactly like I left it. I pat over with hand and Go..lol
eta: It doesnt matter if hair is tangled or whatever. As long as it LOOKS nice, smooth, Flat & sleek then thats all good with me. The tangles will come out next wash..lol
sylver2 said:did someone say my name..lol
Okay let me see...I use heat once a month summers and twice a month during the winter..blow dry and light flat iron. Braidouts all the other times.
... but other then on wash/dry days I do not touch my hair.
Locksofluv (hey girl was right I never ever comb xcept on wash day.
When I get ready for bed my hair is already parted in the style I want.
I leave hair down and completely out. I tie Satin scarf on with the back of my hair hanging out and down. Then I swoop up the back of my hair and lightly tuck that part into an oversized Satin bonnet leaving the bonnet halfway on head..
I go to sleep. Wake up take off bonnet, take off scarf and hair is exactly like I left it. I pat over with hand and Go..lol
eta: It doesnt matter if hair is tangled or whatever. As long as it LOOKS nice, smooth, Flat & sleek then thats all good with me. The tangles will come out next wash..lol