Slave4Hair
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Hey ladies. I really need your advice because I am driving myself crazy!
I met this guy. I REALLY like him. I think that may be part of the problem erplexed
He's perfect, he's really cute, smart, in med school, and super attentive (when were together). BUT I feel like he's playing games with me for some reason.
Our first date was amazing. We ended it with a kiss and he texted me as soon as I got home and told me he couldn't wait to see me again. We texted eac other constantly for a week throughout the day until or next date. On our second date, things got super awkward. Conversation died off, and he seemed like he was in a bad mood. We ended the date with no kiss.
I was super surprised when he called me a week later. He acted like nothing ever happened and asked me how I was doing. We started talking again and agreed to go on a third date.
The third date was awesome! We made out all night, watched movies at his place and just talked. He didn't pressure me to sleep with him or try to take things too far. The next day I didn't hear from him! 2 days later he texted me and asked if I could come over to hang out again. So last night I went over to his place and we studied together. Then we made out...again, and I slept over. He was really sweet! He didn't try to go to far with me and we just cuddled all night. I left pretty early because I had a lot of work to do for school today. He pretty much begged me to stay and when I said I couldn't he asked me to come over later in the day. Here's the thing. Once again I've heard nothing from him. It's so weird that he just fades away after each date and pops back up days later. Does this mean he's not that into me? Is he looking for a FWB? Am I being too anxious? Over analytical? I texted him today to see how he's doing and he said "good " but there was no effort to continue communication on his part. I'm just so confused because when I'm with him he seems really interested, but when were apart he seems distant. For those of you into astrology, he's a cancer...aren't they know for their disappearing acts. I'm starting to think I should move on. Any advice?
I met this guy. I REALLY like him. I think that may be part of the problem erplexed
He's perfect, he's really cute, smart, in med school, and super attentive (when were together). BUT I feel like he's playing games with me for some reason.
Our first date was amazing. We ended it with a kiss and he texted me as soon as I got home and told me he couldn't wait to see me again. We texted eac other constantly for a week throughout the day until or next date. On our second date, things got super awkward. Conversation died off, and he seemed like he was in a bad mood. We ended the date with no kiss.
I was super surprised when he called me a week later. He acted like nothing ever happened and asked me how I was doing. We started talking again and agreed to go on a third date.
The third date was awesome! We made out all night, watched movies at his place and just talked. He didn't pressure me to sleep with him or try to take things too far. The next day I didn't hear from him! 2 days later he texted me and asked if I could come over to hang out again. So last night I went over to his place and we studied together. Then we made out...again, and I slept over. He was really sweet! He didn't try to go to far with me and we just cuddled all night. I left pretty early because I had a lot of work to do for school today. He pretty much begged me to stay and when I said I couldn't he asked me to come over later in the day. Here's the thing. Once again I've heard nothing from him. It's so weird that he just fades away after each date and pops back up days later. Does this mean he's not that into me? Is he looking for a FWB? Am I being too anxious? Over analytical? I texted him today to see how he's doing and he said "good " but there was no effort to continue communication on his part. I'm just so confused because when I'm with him he seems really interested, but when were apart he seems distant. For those of you into astrology, he's a cancer...aren't they know for their disappearing acts. I'm starting to think I should move on. Any advice?
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