I understand the pelo malo comments makes everybody mad. But don't front because we know some AA stylist will tell you your hair is nappy too and needs a touch up. Then they will burn you with the marcel irons.
this is generally how i feel. i did experience a little heat damage the last time i went in for a blowout but the most damage i experienced was to my temper... i get pissed by the comments and the sulking and sucking of teeth i get as they detangle and blowout my hair... i would just take solace in the $15 price though instead of cussing them out...
do these stylists really think that americans know such little spanish that they can't translate "pelo malo?"
I am against it, but not just for heat reasons. I refuse to give my money to anyone who would stand over me saying "pelo malo" and try to pressure me into a relaxer. I know how they feel about 4b hair, so I wouldn't even waste my time.
I understand the pelo malo comments makes everybody mad. But don't front because we know some AA stylist will tell you your hair is nappy too and needs a touch up. Then they will burn you with the marcel irons.
I have only gone to Dominican Salons 'cause am dominican and thats it buttttttt.....The heat is bad....If anyone had a bad experience is probably the stylist itself...I have gone to a lot of good ones....
I have never had a bad experience where i had a setback because i say what i want and i get it....
Dominicans have had a lifetime of good hair habits besides the heat which is equally damaging if not worse than pressing the hair at AA salons!
Also we don't relax as much...My stylist actually tells me i do it too many times and i go anywhere from 12-14 weeks.
They Deep condition every week
Roller sets ( is a sin any other way)
and many others...
I am against it, but not just for heat reasons. I refuse to give my money to anyone who would stand over me saying "pelo malo" and try to pressure me into a relaxer. I know how they feel about 4b hair, so I wouldn't even waste my time.
Exactly. Went to Anabelle's in nyc on lower east side (really close to the village where I live and go to college) and she to me NOT to relax. I'm 4a mostly a little 3c thrown in for measure. Now I didn't want to but I was complaining and saying sometimes I want to and she was like "no mami!" and went on to say I was doing the right thing and that's why my hair was so healthy. So I think it depends on the person.I actually went today and they had a woman who just did natural hair.. she was great... she used heat protectant, was gentle, and combed from the bottom with conditioner in it.. the pic is in my avatar
i've kinda decided against. im wondering why people are so anxious to try dominican salons, particularily this '' dominican blow out ''.. when regular AA salons do blow outs as well.. just dosen't sound as exotic lol.. and i think it's safe to assume they don't use as much heat.. but, god forbid you go to a regular salon. they'll jack your hair up!! but the dominican blow out is AWESOME.. LOL.
Basically. Y'all act like regular black hairdressers don't try to push naturals to relax or complain about hair being too thick, too nappy, etc. Many of them don't like or don't know how to deal with natural hair either. Most black hairdressers will not touch my hair with a 10 foot pole because I don't have a relaxer. Some of the African braid shops don't like to do natural hair either. That's fine with me though, I'll just keep my money in my pocket and my hair on my head.
You have to find the right Dominican salon and it helps if you know how to speak Spanish. I have 4B natural hair and the Dominican Salon that I go to, I have gone to since 1999 and the same lady does my hair and does it beautifully. Don't make the mistake of making one person's bad experience the norm. I will suggest that if you go, only go for the rollerset and let them lightly blow your roots. The heat from the blow dryer is not for the faint of heart!
I wouldn't go to a black stylist who felt that way either. I've been to a great black stylist who is familiar with natural hair (she pressed my hair for a friend's wedding), and she didn't say one negative word about my hair. She never mentioned a relaxer, either. If I ever decide to get my hair done again, she will be getting my money.
^^This is what I was considering doing. I wonder how long it would take for my hair to dry in their shop from a rollerset? When I tried it at home it took an hour and 45 minutes
I understand the pelo malo comments makes everybody mad. But don't front because we know some AA stylist will tell you your hair is nappy too and needs a touch up. Then they will burn you with the marcel irons.