Pennefeather, I was having the same issue. I've been following Long Hair Don't Care and she has a vid on this issue you might want to check out. Here's the link: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YZ8xHsnMa2Y.
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~Current hair length: BSL first time!! WooHoo!!:woohoo2:
~Relaxed/Natural/Texlaxed/Loc'd: Natural
~Goal month: Dec. 2013 for BSL, Feb-Mar. 2014 for MBL
~Post a beginning picture: Starting Dec. 1, 2013
LAST INVERSION OF THE MONTH DONE! !
I haven't started. I will do it now. Day 1