hi everyone,
I am a long time stalker, as well. I will confess that I did not introduce myself because it seems that most of you are young ladies and most of you have or are working on long hair. I enjoy this board so much and can read the postings for hours on end.
Well, I am a grandmother of one, my hair is thinning on top and that really worries me (that is one reason that I was interested in this board in the first place). I have a very distinctive, signature gray patch in the front of my hair which I keep, the rest of my hair is dyed dark brown. I am transitioning rather reluctantly, my hair is thick and coarse and definitely 4b in most places, as I age, I believe that the top of my hair is changing textures and seems to be 4a. I like the ease of a relaxer but my hair just does not seem to do well at all lately with a relaxer. I go to a stylist who does a great job with a press and curl. My hair is actually growing and is starting to feel like hair instead of steel wool. I am , for the first time in a long time enjoying my hair, I feel attractive again without a wig or a weave.
Is there anyone who can relate to my experiences? I would enjoy sharing ideas and experiences with anyone.