Your post sounds like mine. I would lose quite of bit of hair when stretching regardless of what I did. Just be real careful because like you, my last 6 month stretch was a fail and I have since gone back to 12 wks. But I'm still reading and learning trying to figure it all out. Good Luck!
With my last long stretch (ended at 38 wks) I was losing a lot of hair and running into detangling issues towards the last few months of my stretch, like from 7 months on. But even at 6 months, I lost more than I'm losing right now and I'm 6 months post on Tuesday.
I'm sure my losing so much had to do with me neglecting my hair and being under so much stress during the final months of my mom's life. I finally ended my stretch because of your (
janeemat) post about your stretch ruining your hair. I worried that maybe that's what was happening with mine (even tho I knew I was reckless and negligent during that time).
But, as of today, my stretch is going so well (especially in comparison to my last stretch) that, tho I vowed not to stretch past 5 months again, I'm planning to continue stretching at least until the end of the year. I think that will put me around 36 wks post.
I am monitoring my hair closely to make sure that my hair is tolerating the stretch but, even when I say that, it sounds strange to talk about my hair tolerating growing in naturally.
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erplexed I think keeping it stretched and not allowing the hair to tangle on itself is key for me. I'm in 10 braids that keeps my hair stretched and the strength in numbers and regular moisturizing keep my strands from breaking. I can easily see myself braided for the remainder of the year so I'm feeling pretty positive about continuing this stretch.
Good for you
wheezy807. I know exactly how you feel.
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Good luck and keep us posted on how things are going.