princessnad
New Member
You should be careful of men who blame the past women in their lives for all their faults. Whether it is true or not, it always sets off red flags for me.
First, his ex-wife cheated. Then the mother of his son "took him" for child support (or whatever the other reasons are that he doesn't take care of his kid). Making excuses and blaming other people is a sign that you don't take responsibility for your actions. He can use this pity party to get you to eventually start feeling sympathy for him and who knows, he may eventually manipulate you into doing all sorts of favors for him/ start taking care of him and being super woman.
All of that may seem like a stretch, but when thinking about your potential mate, it is a serious issue which shouldn't be taken lightly. Beware of character flaws and make sure that you would be able to live with the worst case scenario. If not, get out.
First, his ex-wife cheated. Then the mother of his son "took him" for child support (or whatever the other reasons are that he doesn't take care of his kid). Making excuses and blaming other people is a sign that you don't take responsibility for your actions. He can use this pity party to get you to eventually start feeling sympathy for him and who knows, he may eventually manipulate you into doing all sorts of favors for him/ start taking care of him and being super woman.
All of that may seem like a stretch, but when thinking about your potential mate, it is a serious issue which shouldn't be taken lightly. Beware of character flaws and make sure that you would be able to live with the worst case scenario. If not, get out.