First and foremost I just want to say I love this forum. I'm glad to see black women interacting with each other.
I am asking other women for there opinion. I have a friend I have known for quite sometime. He is very family oriented, loving and caring and easy to talk too. We never been in an relationship but I think it could lead up to one.
He recently told me he had an child that was 1 years old. I didn't say nothing but listened. Apparently he said he didn't know she was pregnant until she brought the baby to the house. I don't know what to believe. He doesn't talk about his son nor spends time with him. Being a single mother myself, I just have a hard time thinking that she would keep him away from his child. He is a wonderful person.
I have seen pictures of the baby and he looks just like him but I don't know what happened, I feel that a child should have both parents in their lives instead of one. I want him to resolve his issues with his son's mother before jumping into a relationship with me.
My questions is what would you do? I don't want to get hurt by this person again because he has hurt me before. But for some reason it seems real this time. I want him to be apart of his son's life. I know it's none of my business but I have been through somethings with my daughter without having her father around.
Do I continue to see him or just remain friends?
It's two sides to a story and I'm just trying to be open minded.
Thanks Ladies....
Keisha W.
I am asking other women for there opinion. I have a friend I have known for quite sometime. He is very family oriented, loving and caring and easy to talk too. We never been in an relationship but I think it could lead up to one.
He recently told me he had an child that was 1 years old. I didn't say nothing but listened. Apparently he said he didn't know she was pregnant until she brought the baby to the house. I don't know what to believe. He doesn't talk about his son nor spends time with him. Being a single mother myself, I just have a hard time thinking that she would keep him away from his child. He is a wonderful person.
I have seen pictures of the baby and he looks just like him but I don't know what happened, I feel that a child should have both parents in their lives instead of one. I want him to resolve his issues with his son's mother before jumping into a relationship with me.
My questions is what would you do? I don't want to get hurt by this person again because he has hurt me before. But for some reason it seems real this time. I want him to be apart of his son's life. I know it's none of my business but I have been through somethings with my daughter without having her father around.
Do I continue to see him or just remain friends?
It's two sides to a story and I'm just trying to be open minded.
Thanks Ladies....
Keisha W.