sky_blu
Well-Known Member
No, not with me! With someone else. I met this guy 8 months ago, he said he wasnt looking for a relationship and neither was I. So I was cool, he was cool, we were cool. We had long conversations (talking about everything under the sun other than my arse or having sex with me), hang out often, and never had an arguement. Things had changed over that time, while we still were friends and he said he cared for me, he wanted to spend more time with me and blah blah blah. Then within a months time, he told me he's "really feeling this person hard", he getting married (he told me this on a Saturday that he was getting married the following Monday to this chick he met 2.5 [he didnt but he told me that he was]) because he was feeling that happy, and this past Thursday he told me she moved into his place. I have to keep laughing to keep myself from crying....but its like what about me? Granted we were "friends" (its in quotes for a reason) Why does everyone but him think this was foul? I mean we were basically seeing each other and feeling each other for 8 months and all that has went down the drain because he met some chick 3 weeks ago. When he told me I thought he was joking bc it just seemed totally out of his characted and thats the type of humor he has but he was dead serious. Im sure its stuff Im leaving out bc this is the short story but geez! Im just bombed...my birthday is in 2 days and he chose to break me right around the corner from my birthday and my favorite holiday I just dont understand it, I just have bad taste in men I guess. And I thought I had lucked up because he's nothing like anyone Ive dealt with. Through some investigative work I found out who she is (he was going to tell me that but I told him not to but then changed my mind and found out my way). 19 yr old with no job and no place of her own LOL and he's 26. He left me for a downgrade.