preciouslove0x
Well-Known Member
I volunteer at the hospital once a week and I came across a lady with flowy long natural hair (she was a patient that just had a baby). I was telling her how I just BCed and eventually we got so into our conversation about natural hair that this is what she said
(paraphrased sorry) the use of "..." means I'm skipping things because I don't remember everything she said.
Would you change the color of your skin... be lighter for a few years if you knew your dark skin would come back by itself?? A few of my coworkers said that they were in the "relaxer stage" and they've done the "natural thing" for a few yeasrs and liked it but they're back in the "relaxer stage" now. But really now what exactly does that mean? God gave us this hair on our head. People say its "just hair" but its "just skin color" and its "just chest size" and its "just nose size" too. Hair comes out of your scalp. It's not like a tattoo or a piercing. It's something you were born with.... I don't know anyone given the chance to change their skin color for a few years would actually do it... but then you never know since it's not an option. I've only been natural for a little more than nine years and I've had my ups and downs with my hair. I'm even currently frustrated now because of the daily knots that I get. But there's no way I would go back to the relaxer when I know that God has made everything perfect in his image. Why not just maintain a press for a few weeks? Is that not similar? Why do so many black women feel the need to permanently change their hair texture? It really does make you wonder what other things they would change on their body if it was only temporary or you could go back to what was natural doesn't it?
She said a lot more and I just stood their speechless. I never heard that analogy but... (please don't shoot me please don't shoot me) but it kind of made sense.... kind of......
What do you ladies think?????
(paraphrased sorry) the use of "..." means I'm skipping things because I don't remember everything she said.
Would you change the color of your skin... be lighter for a few years if you knew your dark skin would come back by itself?? A few of my coworkers said that they were in the "relaxer stage" and they've done the "natural thing" for a few yeasrs and liked it but they're back in the "relaxer stage" now. But really now what exactly does that mean? God gave us this hair on our head. People say its "just hair" but its "just skin color" and its "just chest size" and its "just nose size" too. Hair comes out of your scalp. It's not like a tattoo or a piercing. It's something you were born with.... I don't know anyone given the chance to change their skin color for a few years would actually do it... but then you never know since it's not an option. I've only been natural for a little more than nine years and I've had my ups and downs with my hair. I'm even currently frustrated now because of the daily knots that I get. But there's no way I would go back to the relaxer when I know that God has made everything perfect in his image. Why not just maintain a press for a few weeks? Is that not similar? Why do so many black women feel the need to permanently change their hair texture? It really does make you wonder what other things they would change on their body if it was only temporary or you could go back to what was natural doesn't it?
She said a lot more and I just stood their speechless. I never heard that analogy but... (please don't shoot me please don't shoot me) but it kind of made sense.... kind of......
What do you ladies think?????