Nayna
Unbothered
So a few years back I thought I was in love with this guy. Things started going downhill though and we were getting a little distant. Not really seeing each other or bothering to reach out, we dated off and on for two years but for some reason just never made things official. One day he puts up a nice pic on FB. I go to view the album an lo and behold he's sucking face with his homegirl! I was in shock! Especially since it was clear to me that their time frame for dating overlapped ours, again though, I was dating too, I just wasn't serious with anyone. So I didn't raise hell, I just deleted him, his number, etc. I was angry initially because I felt it should've been me, but as time went on I just wished him the best and hoped that he was happy because I knew that he had a lot of stress in his life and that at least she was someone that loved him as much as I did, probably even more since they were very good friends long before I entered the scene.
Fastforward to now. It's been about 3 years. I never stopped thinking about him but you know how it goes; you learn to live without them. I started a hair page on instagram with an email address I don't use much and when it suggested friends for me his page was the FIRST one. I was in shock. I didn't friend it but it jarred me; I didn't even know he had a page. That was probably a month or so ago. So on Thursday I friended him on my personal instagram page. Today he left me a message, left his number, and asked me to call him. I texted him cus I'm a punk, lol.
I thought if I ever spoke to him again I would be so over him. You know, like "efff you homeboy you messed up a good thing!". Idk. It feels... Idk. I'm flustered. He's not being flirty, thank goodness because I dont think I could process that right now, but he did state that they are no longer together and that he thought he would never speak to me again. I don't want my feelings to start rising to the surface again, however if I'm being truly honest with myself I'm happy that we are speaking again. A bit too darn happy. I got other guys so it's not like I'm in need of attention, so what is this?
I like hearing difference in opinions, so what do you guys think? Did I ever really get over him? I thought I did. I've had a boyfriend since him. Still getting that joker out my system, so maybe I'm rebounding?
I'm kind of surprised that now that he's resurfacing I'm not as guarded as I think I should be, does that make sense?
Fastforward to now. It's been about 3 years. I never stopped thinking about him but you know how it goes; you learn to live without them. I started a hair page on instagram with an email address I don't use much and when it suggested friends for me his page was the FIRST one. I was in shock. I didn't friend it but it jarred me; I didn't even know he had a page. That was probably a month or so ago. So on Thursday I friended him on my personal instagram page. Today he left me a message, left his number, and asked me to call him. I texted him cus I'm a punk, lol.
I thought if I ever spoke to him again I would be so over him. You know, like "efff you homeboy you messed up a good thing!". Idk. It feels... Idk. I'm flustered. He's not being flirty, thank goodness because I dont think I could process that right now, but he did state that they are no longer together and that he thought he would never speak to me again. I don't want my feelings to start rising to the surface again, however if I'm being truly honest with myself I'm happy that we are speaking again. A bit too darn happy. I got other guys so it's not like I'm in need of attention, so what is this?
I like hearing difference in opinions, so what do you guys think? Did I ever really get over him? I thought I did. I've had a boyfriend since him. Still getting that joker out my system, so maybe I'm rebounding?
I'm kind of surprised that now that he's resurfacing I'm not as guarded as I think I should be, does that make sense?