Lucie
Dancin' on sunshine!
PH, I've been married 8 years, 9 this year It's tough, I know. Marriage, as all relationships are, are cyclic, they go through changes.
There have been times when I looked at dh like WTH did I marry you and then others like, OMG I you to death. I think any healthy and good marriage has to have its ups and downs.
When I hear a couple has this wonderful happy marriage all the time, I think, ok whatever
Also, for me, if I'm not feeling dh mentally, if there are some emotional or mental issues there, then I surely can't connect with him sexually. Here I thought I had the best sex in the world with dh and I once almost had an affair, but not for sex and but I couldn't see that at the time and learn to WORK through those cyclic changes that come in a marriage.
Hang in there Ma!
Thank you for sharing that. You and I got married around the same year. I got married in September of '99.
ITA with your entire post. I feel the same way you do when people act like they are on Cloud-9 all the time .
I am going to talk to DH tonight about how I've been feeling. Thanks again!