UPDATE:
Last night went really well. We got home from work, went to the park, did some photography, laughed and kissed and was very regular. Came home had dinner and cuddled on the couch then we started talking like we always do. I made some jokes about how Im gonna upload some booty videos of my own and wear the same shirt in each video, was funny. We laughed about it. Then we talked for hours about fantasies and things we liked. I told him in details things I like to watch and see which in turned paved the way for him to be even more open about the things he likes. We talked about booty vids, I talked about how its not fair that theres not an equivalent for women! LOL Men cant really shake their junk, not cool at all. I mentioned specifically I like male "hand" vids etc etc and he shared even more about what he likes. Was a good night. Everything was squashed.
yes this relationship is fairly new a little over a month, going strong. We are close and share a lot, and that was my main issue with his lie! Why lie?! He apologized again and he also mentioned that he's not used to being with someone so open. Most women he's ever dated have been jealous or uptight about stuff. Our energy was back to normal and I could breathe normal again. The tension was gone from my chest and I could feel that he was open and honest with me.
Thanks for all your advise ladies.
im happy all is well.
