I said this to my husband this morning. I was getting some paperwork taken care of at the DMV. And as we were walking out (not getting to do what we came there for because we were missing one original document) the door slammed on the way out. SOOOO...my husband who likes to joke I guess at inappropriate times says "Are you angry?" and I said "No why would I be angry, I'm doing this for you, not just me" or something like that. Well of course he gets SUPER offended! He says, "Oh so you're doing me a favor now?" and I said, "Not a favor, I'm doing what a wife does to help her husband." Then when I realized he's just going to be offended and pissed because he swears I'm RUDE...I just shut up and said to myself don't say another word.
You guys my internal monitor is obviously not working, was I WRONG? Did I somehow hurt his ego? Is HE being too sensitive? He's not working THIS WEEK (contractor) so he's tough to be around already.
Help me understand this situation please.
P.S. The door jam was BROKEN and of course I did not slam that door and he knew it too. I really thought he believed I slammed it because I (his wife) couldn't tell he was joking.
Lana
You guys my internal monitor is obviously not working, was I WRONG? Did I somehow hurt his ego? Is HE being too sensitive? He's not working THIS WEEK (contractor) so he's tough to be around already.
Help me understand this situation please.
P.S. The door jam was BROKEN and of course I did not slam that door and he knew it too. I really thought he believed I slammed it because I (his wife) couldn't tell he was joking.
Lana
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