PopLife
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So, I was listening to the Steve Harvey morning show the other day and the Strawberry Letter was on this topic. Basically a divorced women wrote in who is dating a guy of three years and the man refuses to propose to her until she changes back to her maiden name.
Steve Harvey basically sided with the man and said that “it’s just a man thing” and the woman needs to go ahead and change her name back. I am on the fence with this topic because I can understand the boyfriend being bothered by the woman still having her ex-husband’s last name but wouldn’t all of that be resolved if they just got married and she would have his new last name.
I really don’t see the point in the woman giving in by going back to her maiden name just to turn right back around and change it to the boyfriend’s last name (this was the woman who worte the letter thoughts too).
What are your thoughts? Who do you think is being petty in this situation?
Steve Harvey basically sided with the man and said that “it’s just a man thing” and the woman needs to go ahead and change her name back. I am on the fence with this topic because I can understand the boyfriend being bothered by the woman still having her ex-husband’s last name but wouldn’t all of that be resolved if they just got married and she would have his new last name.
I really don’t see the point in the woman giving in by going back to her maiden name just to turn right back around and change it to the boyfriend’s last name (this was the woman who worte the letter thoughts too).
What are your thoughts? Who do you think is being petty in this situation?