fattyfatfat
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good point. In my situation I worry about him staying here a lot, getting all the benefits of having a place to stay and getting too comfortable too soon. Additionally I KNOW my landlords look out their window and I dont want them seeing someone who is not on the lease, with a key, coming and going as he pleases. I know lots of young women around my age who let their SO come and go with a key whenever they please. Their situations have now turned into the worse. Im seeing here on the board if Im overreacting.
He asked me for a key once and I was like look:. Sorry cant get a key.
He asked me for a key once and I was like look:. Sorry cant get a key.
The only thing I'm questioning is if some of you ladies feel less uncomfortable about it becasue if you're not married it doesn't "look" right morally? I am finally moving into my own place 2 hours away from MisterMan in 2 months.
I am SO much more comfortable at his place than I am at home with my parents plus I work from my home office which means wherever I want to be from 9-5 (basically). I help him out by buying groceries and cleaning from time to time but he never asks me to and he still takes me out on dates and for the most part does not let me cook- he cooks and waits on me. It's been almost a year and he respects my desire to wait for sex until marriage and we have already started looking at houses and rings so I don't see what the big deal is. I feel like I'm looking out for all the pitfalls of cohabiting while getting all the benefits (meaning I get to know what's it's like to "live" with him and all of his quirks and habits and vice versa).
Besides now that we will be living farther away for the time being it would be mean to send him away after such a long drive after a few hours doncha think?