fattyfatfat
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ladies, if you have your own place, how often can/does your SO stay over? does he have a key? if you leave for work can he stay or does he have to go? thanks.
ladies, if you have your own place, how often can/does your SO stay over? does he have a key? if you leave for work can he stay or does he have to go? thanks.
I own my own place. He doesn't.
He doesn't have a key. He can spend the night on the week ends and maybe once during the week. If I leave to go to work he can stay until its time for him to go to work.
I don't let him get too comfortable in my place. He kknows my reasoning and until we get married thats how its going to be.
I kinda feel the same way. I think living together and him staying at mine, with his washcloth and toothbrush there, coming and going when he pleases, are two different things.
For those that have your SO round more than twice a week, does he contribute to any bills of any sort?
I kinda feel the same way. I think living together and him staying at mine, with his washcloth and toothbrush there, coming and going when he pleases, are two different things.
For those that have your SO round more than twice a week, does he contribute to any bills of any sort?
No, he doesn't contribute to any bills, but buys food and stuff when he comes over. Why would he pay bills for a place where he doesn't live? I wouldn't pay any bills if I stayed at his place a couple of times a week...
my SO stays over a couple of times a week, and I stay over his place the remainder. He buys food and juice when he comes over, etc. I don't expect him to pay bills or help out with the rent because he has his own place. I wouldn't make this a habit if I was casually dating or didn't think he is the one. Oh and we leave together in the mornings because we both have jobs. On the weekends when I go to my class I sometimes leave him, and vice versa if he has something to do on the weekends he will leave me at his place.
I don't have a significant other, but if I did, he could only visit. He would not be staying over and he would not have a key to my place. The only way he would be able to stay all night and have a key is if we are binded by a marriage contract.
I kinda feel the same way. I think living together and him staying at mine, with his washcloth and toothbrush there, coming and going when he pleases, are two different things.
For those that have your SO round more than twice a week, does he contribute to any bills of any sort?
I don't have a significant other, but if I did, he could only visit. He would not be staying over and he would not have a key to my place. The only way he would be able to stay all night and have a key is if we are binded by a marriage contract.
Whew! Glad to see I'm not the only one. I was reading through the other posts and beginning to think I was a dying breed.
Not that I haven't had the SO staying over, but looking back, it just isn't worth it. They stay over, then they expect a nice cooked meal in the AM like they're your husband. Ya'll can keep that ish. As a matter of fact, I'd rather visit him, have my fun and leave when I'm done.
Maybe your SO expected that but actually MisterMan does most of the cooking and serving me meals.
I have never been in the habit of letting an SO stay over frequently on a regular basis, if you want that kind of access then make me your wife. If they did, they cooked me breakfast or I was taken out to breakfast. They only expect things when you allow them too.....
Even if I was an atheist, I wouldn't do it either.Is this because you have a belief in relations should wait for marriage kinda deal?
I own my own place. He doesn't.
He doesn't have a key. He can spend the night on the week ends and maybe once during the week. If I leave to go to work he can stay until its time for him to go to work.
I don't let him get too comfortable in my place. He kknows my reasoning and until we get married thats how its going to be.