So I went of this weekend for the first time with a white guy. It was pretty awesome night. I hung out with him and his friends and we went to a bar then dancing. Both places were filled with predominently white people.
A noticed a few things:
1) I know perference is preference but there were sooo many attractive white men. I mean ALOT! I was just thinking. I knew I could be physically attracted to white men but I was a little shocked when I realized I was sexually as well. I was like, "I can definitely get with this."
2) Cultural things are a bit different but overall if you're an open-minded person, then embracing the differences are relatively easy. Also if you are touchy about race, interracial dating will be a problem. Often times they will make jokes that speak to racial divide, such as their inability to dance, their choice of music, or lack of body being different than yours. Of course, its not to be offensive but if you are sensitive to racial differences then anything they would say or joke about could be taken out of context.
3) In the dance "club", there was some black women (I could count on 1 hand including me) and a dozen or so of black men. Of course I knew these men were checking for the white girls. However, I noticed that when I stepped in the place, for some of them, their attention was directed to me. Even one guy was so aggressive as to try and pull me from my date. No Bueno. He was an attractive black guy but disrespectful because he was with someone and checkin for me. Which got me thinking...They can date "out" with ease but when they see an attractive black women dating "out", they do not like it to the point of disrespect and are possibly curious as to "how" this white guy is with me. Now of course my date was even more better looking than I remembered. He is like a young Tom Welling (height, build, face structure, lips, noise, eye color, but less hair). So how on a surface level shouldnt even be a question.
4) A lil more personal...I used to have a prejudice that I only wanted to deal with someone with full lips because I kissed a guy with thin lips once and it was a disaster. This guy has sorta those pouty, pink lips and he was an amazing kisser. I have heard of the myth that white men have small crayons. Now I am curious to debunk this myth
but only with the appointed time.
5) I also observe they really are no different than any other race when it comes to dating/relationship. If you sleep with them early AND they have a problem with any personality trait, they will dog you out behind your back. I heard it first hand and it was pretty bad. I also observed some where skirt chasing, others healing from a broken heart by skirt chasing, others just chillin and enjoying, and others you could tell where getting tired of the "single scene". The way they talk is a bit different but the issues/thoughts/feelings/actions are pretty much the same.
Anyway, I was just stating my observation of the night.