I wore my hair down at work today...

[buffalosoldier]

Why cant people just be nice and give somebody a compliment? I feel sorry for them that they are so miserable.

I wonder if they are happily married hmmmmm?

 

[CocoaCure]

NO! You're absolutely 100% CORRECT in your thinking! That comment was obviously made by an EXTREME HATER!!! Having met you in person, any man would be attracted to you for alot more than just physical things. You're smart and interesting to talk to and lots of fun! Pretty with gorgeous hair too............but it's all the other things that men.........REAL MEN will be attracted too! SHe's just a hater!!! YUCK! I'm a Hater of Haters!!

 

[Lorraine]

I think if SuperGirl were ugly her coworker would not have cared about her hair -- real or fake. Some women (and you know who I'm talking about) try to justify an attractive woman's looks based on what they think is fake. "Oh she has a weave, or color contacts, or fake breasts." Geez! It's easier for us to be rude or stare instead of just complimenting or politely asking how someone maintains their beautiful hair. But some of us are too proud to do something silly like that!

 

[JetBlack]

It's amazing the POWER that hair has.

 

[MissJ]

That sucks, Supergirl. You should not be trying to hook a man by wearing your hair down. It doesn't make sense. The guy should be into you and not your physical beauty. Those people who said that are... well, I don't know what to say about them. Anyway, I think you look very nice with your hair up and down!

 

[offthechainliz]

I can't believe someone would say something like that.

All they have to do is look at you to see that you are a beautiful person, inside and out. not to mention whether your hair is up or down.

 

[levette]

I can see why your co-workers were staring at your hair. You have a gorgeous head of hair. I think your co-worker needs to be worried about their man looking at Your Hair- versus giving you some advice on how to get a man.

 

[Sweetyb]

I agree with your coworker.... to an extent. I have noticed myself that men pay particular attention to women's hair. Just today at school, I was sitting outside a few feet away from these young guys just chatting. This lady walked by us with some butt-long siiiilky and shiny hair--even I had to look up at it. As she was passing by, these guys stopped chatting and yelled out "ey, you got some nice hair". Corny, huh? But I thought the same thing about her.

I think nice hair shows that the person cares about themselves enough to take care of their hair. Guys probably don't even realize why they like hair so much, but I think this is why. And if it's long that seems to be a plus.

BUT you don't have to show your hair to "get a husband"--I think girlfriend, if she wasn't joking with you, may have crossed the line with that one

 

[inthepink]

It does suck that sometimes this may be true. What's even suckier is that since I've been wearing my hair up, I feel less pretty. I used to love having my long hair as an accessory. I didn't need makeup or anything else...just my hair and that was enough. Maybe I was delusional...

Though, it's definitely true that if you are beautiful, inside and out, it will show - hair up or down. And you definitely are Supergirl!

 

[ADB]

I remember when I was little I would always have crushes on guys because of their hair. No matter what they looked like if they had super straight, extra curly, or long braids I liked them. I know that sounds stupid, but I think hair does attract people. It's a big plus to a guy if you have the personality to go along with the hair.

 

[brismom]

I have been married for almost nine years and one thing I know about men is that they are ultimately attracted to a confident woman. Because you have put a lot of work into your hair you know that your hair looks good. That confidence is illuminated whenever you walk by. That's what will find you a husband, if that's what you want. Those comments from the other people mean you are doing something right. People don't notice losers. (I hope I don't sound too hokey. That sounds like something my mother would say!?!?!)