I want to come clean for my horrible mistakes.

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I may sound cold for this, but it's real.

I have been abused/neglected as a child myself and I would NEVER do anything to intentionally hurt someone. I do not let the past shape the kind of person I am and how I behave to others. I strive to be a good person despite whatever hardships I've had to endure.

Now, you haven't done anything that makes you demon spawn :lol: You just seem very troubled.

but miss... being troubled is NO EXCUSE for starting trouble. No way, no how.

I can understand that you (may) be hurting and I know how low a person can really get... but all I have to say is try to get it together.

You do not seem healthy. I truly would suggest that you get some help. There is no shame in it.

Good Luck.
 
And dont feel like we hate you because we dont..........its just crazy you know! But once again thank you for saying sorry......
 
dlewis said:
This is all weird.:nono: You don't have to be anyone but yourself. I'm a weird, crazy, no spelling, cooky and just overall odd person and I have found a home here. You can just be yourself on this board, someones gonna like you and you'll make friends. I think it's best to erase this membership and come back as someone else, because you will always be known for this.

I thought people did this but this just confirms it.:nono:

Big hug to you though :bighug:
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Don't forget country. :lol:

But yeah I am a loud, talkative, gossiping, cooking, over the top, bible thumping, freaky, cute (but tranny looking, lol), emotional, mean, too dang gone honest, giving, and crazy person and I am cool with a lot of folks on here. Just do you. Q
 
Well, I agree start over, because when this thread and the other one running alongside it is closed all will be forgot. Except by a few with memories like an elephant. Good luck and happy hair growing.
 
***Que*** said:
Don't forget country. :lol:

But yeah I am a loud, talkative, gossiping, cooking, over the top, bible thumping, freaky, cute (but tranny looking, lol), emotional, mean, too dang gone honest, giving, and crazy person and I am cool with a lot of folks on here. Just do you. Q
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:lachen:

And shotgun totin :lachen:
 
***Que*** said:
Don't forget country. :lol:

But yeah I am a loud, talkative, gossiping, cooking, over the top, bible thumping, freaky, cute (but tranny looking, lol), emotional, mean, too dang gone honest, giving, and crazy person and I am cool with a lot of folks on here. Just do you. Q
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bible thumping and freaky in the same sentence?
MY LORD! lol
 
Neith said:
I may sound cold for this, but it's real.

I have been abused/neglected as a child myself and I would NEVER do anything to intentionally hurt someone. I do not let the past shape the kind of person I am and how I behave to others. I strive to be a good person despite whatever hardships I've had to endure.

Now, you haven't done anything that makes you demon spawn :lol: You just seem very troubled.

but miss... being troubled is NO EXCUSE for starting trouble. No way, no how.

I can understand that you (may) be hurting and I know how low a person can really get... but all I have to say is try to get it together.

You do not seem healthy. I truly would suggest that you get some help. There is no shame in it.

Good Luck.
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Nevermind.... whatever :)
 
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*fabulosity* said:
What the what.. did one of yall hack into her screenname?
I've had enough of LHCF today..ooh Jesus!

JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL!
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No one hacked into her screenname.




GJ,

I know you think this is sooo serious right now and that everyone thinks horribly of you, but trust that everyone has moved on from this. There are no hard feelings. Like others have already said, I'm glad you came and apologized that was very big of you. Just relax, don't overwhelm yourself with this one issue, and just start again. It's ok, dear....you are forgiven :kiss: It's all good, ok?

Now, do you forgive yourself? Because you're going to have to let it go in order to move forward. This is a great community, I would hate to see you miss out on all the wonderful exchange of information.
 
***Que*** said:
Don't forget country. :lol:

But yeah I am a loud, talkative, gossiping, cooking, over the top, bible thumping, freaky, cute (but tranny looking, lol), emotional, mean, too dang gone honest, giving, and crazy person and I am cool with a lot of folks on here. Just do you. Q
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See, something is wrong with you! :lachen::lachen:
 
***Que*** said:
Don't forget country. :lol:

But yeah I am a loud, talkative, gossiping, cooking, over the top, bible thumping, freaky, cute (but tranny looking, lol), emotional, mean, too dang gone honest, giving, and crazy person and I am cool with a lot of folks on here. Just do you. Q
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Yea I forgot that.

See if we can love Q, you can't be that bad.

Thankfully we had some ladies that was checking out the other thread and knew it wouldn't work, just hope some poor lady that has been growing her hair for 5 years don't use some mixture and burn all her hair off. This could have been serious.

I don't normally get upset but this kinda stuff makes me angry. You could have cause alot of harm with that other thread. Turning members against each other etc.
 
foxxymami said:
No one hacked into her screenname.




GJ,

I know you think this is sooo serious right now and that everyone thinks horribly of you, but trust that everyone has moved on from this. There are no hard feelings. Like others have already said, I'm glad you came and apologized that was very big of you. Just relax, don't overwhelm yourself with this one issue, and just start again. It's ok, dear....you are forgiven :kiss: It's all good, ok?

Now, do you forgive yourself? Because you're going to have to let it go in order to move forward. This is a great community, I would hate to see you miss out on all the wonderful exchange of information.
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Dont lie to her :lachen:

It's a thread going on right now hanging her out to dry. Why you think she started this one? :lachen:
 
Dahlin' you have officially been "jumped in":grin:

Keep your original name, we're going to know it's you anyways and just take the licks you've earn. It will die down with the next drama that will unfold. We're hard but we're quick to forgive too. EVENTUALLY you will laugh with us about this whole thing.:grin:

No more making up stories though, ok?:spinning: Just be yourself and enjoy the fellowship of the board:yep:
 
This thread is not for us to argue amongst ourselves, she wanted to apologize, which she has done. Some of us will just accept the apology, some will offer criticism and advice, but there really is no point to argue amongst ourselves over this

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envivany said:
This thread is not for us to argue amongst ourselves, she wanted to apologize, which she has done. Some of us will just accept the apology, some will offer criticism and advice, but there really is no point to argue amongst ourselves over this
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I agree, I'm not trying to argue with anyone. Delete the quote please. :)
 
alabama said:
Good for you but your experience is not HER experience. I'm glad you handled your pain "better" but you can't tell someone how they should handle their OWN pain. :nono:
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Doing anything to intentionally hurt someone is inexcusable imo.

I don't care WHAT happened to you, that does not give you the right to wrong others in any way. Especially people who have done nothing to you.

If you believe otherwise, why don't try out her sulfur mix?

Even after people told her how dangerous her concoction was, she still defended it. Someone posted today asking about it, that was plain WRONG and the distant "whys" don't matter.

Sorry if that seems harsh to you, but that's just how it is for me.


 
So I'm over here at work DEAD at all this. I was reading that thread until it was deleted, hijacked right from under my nose. My clients are probably wondering why the only black person at this firm is cracking up about some forum on her Mac. This is truly a case of Jesus take the wheel. Irrisistible, you my dear, are a riot.

I searched for this smiley :look: without the smile at the end, but I couldn't. That's how I feel about this thread.
 
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foxxymami said:
What thread?

Lord, who knew the hair board had so much drama :spinning:
Yesterday was my first time on the hair board in like 4 months. I shoulda stayed in OT board :drunk:
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I think we get to comfortable over there. I've been visiting over here more, OT been kinda boring lately.
 
Irresistible said:
first you have to figure out what it felt like to be me, to take that chance and stand and expose things that didnt seem right, the turmoil over how to do it right so that it would be recieved, the shock at what I was seeing and feeling and what me and some others FOUGHT to get others to see, how I was made out to be some ulgur of a person with your help, and consent knowing all along. see there are things you dont know either, I fought that battle because it was in my spirit to do so and something told me, it wasnt going to be enough to just point out one thing, it was deeper than that and I knew it and what you didnt know on the other side of this screen, when I decided to take on this battle and thank God for thr lost and your pain, I saw it , knew it , felt it long before you announced it.
That I can do
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The bold is some of what I was talking about. The drama that was caused in the name of fun. I just dont like to see that. So I really hope the OP has learned from this. I am not beating you up OP but please look at the big picture of everything that happened. It's not as easy for some to forgive as others. And some things just wont be forgiven as easily.
 
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alabama said:
I said nevermind :)
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And I said what I said :)

Actually I was typing out the response as you edited your post to say nevermind, so I didn't have the chance to see it until after I posted the response.

However, I won't be editing my response. If you don't want to argue don't respond. I won't be saying anything else either if so.
 
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