brownsugar9999
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encourage one another? Constructive criticism is a must when you seek opinion from others in search of common goals, but ugly comments are counter productive. Again, it's subjective. What one person finds beautiful, another may find grotesque. But what do we gain by belittling others? This was in my Fotki:
Sorry to inform you, but this bleached blonde hair is really tired. It looks harsh and unhealthy. I can't understand why black women do this to themselves. It really looks ridiculous. Why have a great length and such an ugly color? I am sure you only wanted comments that are in agreement with you, but this is really ugly.
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No, I don't expect all comments in agreement with my own, but whatever happened to grace? I have no problem with the opinion put foward, but the personal attack is unnecessary. I found it to be a bit childish.
Fine...It's not on your head, but why would you interject with that last comment? Keep in mind...my husband likes it, as well do I. We're the only two people paying the bills around here, so that's all that matters. But I do believe that as a group of women of color, this could have been worded with a little more tact and Christian grace. I can't make anyone like my hair, but I appreciate all of the healthy ideas and suggestions given.
Sorry to inform you, but this bleached blonde hair is really tired. It looks harsh and unhealthy. I can't understand why black women do this to themselves. It really looks ridiculous. Why have a great length and such an ugly color? I am sure you only wanted comments that are in agreement with you, but this is really ugly.
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No, I don't expect all comments in agreement with my own, but whatever happened to grace? I have no problem with the opinion put foward, but the personal attack is unnecessary. I found it to be a bit childish.
Fine...It's not on your head, but why would you interject with that last comment? Keep in mind...my husband likes it, as well do I. We're the only two people paying the bills around here, so that's all that matters. But I do believe that as a group of women of color, this could have been worded with a little more tact and Christian grace. I can't make anyone like my hair, but I appreciate all of the healthy ideas and suggestions given.
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