I refuse sex...What could be wrong?

[Ivey14]

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[NOEChic]

girl you need to go to your dr...

 

[Minty]

yea. you should visit your doc, and get a diagnostic blood test - specifically your hormones to make sure the BCP did not knock your hormones out of wack. If you are not depressed, I would definitely visit the doc. Also high intensity exercise and or weight training works too.

You want to get to the bottom of that ASAP (no pun intended)

 

[Ivey14]

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[Chrissy811]

Singing with the Chior even though you were only on birth control for a short while it does alter the hormonal system. Check with your Dr. to see if its a physical cause. If not then sit and think about when you first started to feel like this. Did something happen? Are you resentful about something? Then talk to your DH and seek counseling if needed.

 

[southernchocolate]

I have to agree with the other ladies and say go to the docter. This doesn't sound healthy. .................................................................................Buuuut...I would also sugguest taking some maca. There's a thread on this stuff and a few of the posters stated that it made them......................."extremely friendly". Just a thought.

 

[Ms Red]

Based on what you posted before, I would venture to say it may also be an emotional block. Intimacy requires trust and feeling safe. You may still be angry at him about past issues or just turned off by him. I hope you get to the bottom of it for you.

 

[Jecookie]

Yes, I would definitely visit a doctor like the others have stated.

Try to go back and track when you started noticing a difference in your libido. It could be a change in your diet or lack of exercise.

I hope you find some answers soon.

 

[Lola28]

Birth control is most likely your culprit. I would do a google search on this phenomona as they call it,sorry I couldn't get the link to post. Supergirl knows a lot about the topic as well.

 

[daydreem2876]

Based on what you posted before, I would venture to say it may also be an emotional block. Intimacy requires trust and feeling safe. You may still be angry at him about past issues or just turned off by him. I hope you get to the bottom of it for you.

I agree... it could be totally psychological. With my ex I tried to rationalize my loss of interest as anything else, but the bottom line was it was him.

 

[SkorpioLust]

Well, if you were feeling frisky before cutting birth control, then it may indeed be hormones and you might try some natural stabilizers like Maca, which girls raved about in the Health forum.

Otherwise, it could be psychological. How is the love otherwise? Do you still love him? Are you emotionally intimate and in sync in your lives? Do you still feel he's your soulmate?

 

[Ganjababy]

It could be the pill..............AS others have said, you need to see your Dr.