natural in ATL
15+ years natural
One thing I want to add to my previous post...I realize that remaining patient, understanding, giving, etc. will take a lot of effort and hard work over the life of a relationship. I think it comes easier in the beginning when:
1) you're not living together yet (I'm guessing some of the things that are "cute" and "quirky" now will become irritating over time!
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2) you and your SO aren't dealing with extra stressful situations (new baby, financial problems, etc.)
3) you haven't been in the relationship for years on end --> after some years you may have a tendency to take it (and your SO) for granted
I believe a strong spiritual foundation, putting God first, praying together, compromise and open communication will help in maintaining all of the positive attributes that this relationship has brought out in me.
1) you're not living together yet (I'm guessing some of the things that are "cute" and "quirky" now will become irritating over time!
)2) you and your SO aren't dealing with extra stressful situations (new baby, financial problems, etc.)
3) you haven't been in the relationship for years on end --> after some years you may have a tendency to take it (and your SO) for granted
I believe a strong spiritual foundation, putting God first, praying together, compromise and open communication will help in maintaining all of the positive attributes that this relationship has brought out in me.
