BeautifulFlower
Well-Known Member
Hmm.. I'll have to think about better ways of letting guys know I'm open to hanging out in a way that doesn't come off as brazen. Recently I was getting desperate for a social life and asked a guy to be my friend (yes I said "you should be my friend" ). That's actually worked out because now he and his friends call me all the type to hang out and I have somethin of a love triangle going on now...
True .. at some point he's either into you or he isn't and yea it might suck if he turns out not to be, but never showing your cards is just gonna prolong the process and keep you in limbo.
Hehe...of course you dont have to say it like that. I can be cute and endearing when I say the wildest things to people so they take it serious but dont think am being pushy. You have to use discretion in your words of course with each individual guy. But you see, you told him that you want to be around him (in your own words of course) and now he asks you out more. It works!
Some guys just need the extra influence to have the confidence to know when its ok to ask you out.