I got a date!

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Lovelylife

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I can't believe it! I don't know what to do. For the past couple of months I've eating out alone, just getting out, hoping and hoping that one guy would notice me and ask me out. I know...very unbelievable but I just kept doing it (plus I'm an only child so being alone comes natural). Then today I convinced myself to get some pizza enough though I'm broke and when I walked out an Asian guy started talking to me then he asked me out. I need to buy an outfit...even though I'm broke.
 
Lovelylife said:
I can't believe it! I don't know what to do. For the past couple of months I've eating out alone, just getting out, hoping and hoping that one guy would notice me and ask me out. I know...very unbelievable but I just kept doing it (plus I'm an only child so being alone comes natural). Then today I convinced myself to get some pizza enough though I'm broke and when I walked out an Asian guy started talking to me then he asked me out. I need to buy an outfit...even though I'm broke.
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Congratulations! And please save your money and make an outfit out of the clothes you already own. If what you were wearing was cute enough to attract the guy, then you are fine. Just get ready to sit back and have fun. :)
 
Lovelylife said:
I can't believe it! I don't know what to do. For the past couple of months I've eating out alone, just getting out, hoping and hoping that one guy would notice me and ask me out. I know...very unbelievable but I just kept doing it (plus I'm an only child so being alone comes natural). Then today I convinced myself to get some pizza enough though I'm broke and when I walked out an Asian guy started talking to me then he asked me out. I need to buy an outfit...even though I'm broke.
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Congratulations on getting a date.

I'm just curious. Any guy that asked you out, you just go? No matter who? Why?
 
Denise11 said:
Congratulations on getting a date.

I'm just curious. Any guy that asked you out, you just go? No matter who? Why?
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No, several guys have been interested but I'm good at looking at temperament and guessing personalities. I'm really picky so this will be first date in my LIFE, my entire life.
Usually I'm more for the being friends with a guy for a year thing then go out on a date, but that is not too realistic because of my geographic location. Good questions though.
 
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Xerxes said:
Congratulations! And please save your money and make an outfit out of the clothes you already own. If what you were wearing was cute enough to attract the guy, then you are fine. Just get ready to sit back and have fun. :)
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You're right! I'll just save my money. I guess I'm just overly anxious.
 
Lovelylife said:
No, several guys have been interested but I'm good at looking at temperament and guessing personalities. I'm really picky so this will be first date in my LIFE, my entire life.
Usually I'm more for the being friends with a guy for a year thing then go out on a date, but that is not too realistic because of my geographic location. Good questions though.
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Thanks for clearing that up. How old are you?
 
Exciting!!! :grin:

I agree with the other ladies, put together a nice outfit with what you have. You want to look like yourself (even though he doesn't know much of you yet lol) but also you want to feel comfortable in what you wear (which is more likely to happen if you wear clothes that you already have).

Have fun!!
 
I also wanted to say, you're quite brave! for accepting a date with a guy you just met!
that's very impressive
 
Denise11 said:
Oh. I'm sorry for asking. I only asked because it would be understandable to me if you were a teen.
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Well I'm not a teen, so I guess I'm making a mistake then.
He didn't seen like a player and I live in a small community...soo I don't know. I guess I'll find out soon if I made a bad decision.
 
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Lovelylife said:
I can't believe it! I don't know what to do. For the past couple of months I've eating out alone, just getting out, hoping and hoping that one guy would notice me and ask me out. I know...very unbelievable but I just kept doing it (plus I'm an only child so being alone comes natural). Then today I convinced myself to get some pizza enough though I'm broke and when I walked out an Asian guy started talking to me then he asked me out. I need to buy an outfit...even though I'm broke.
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I am so happy for you! I hope you have a great time and I hope it turns into something you can write home about{LHCF:lachen:}.
Enjoy the date, be yourself and please tell us all about that date. Best wishes, kudos and all that girlfriend joy to you!!!!!!!!
 
Denise11 said:
No. That doesn't mean you're making a mistake. You have to do what you think is best. Have fun.
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I understand your concerns, I just don't know what else I would have done. I actually like him and I know I won't meet another guy like that, especially when it comes to Asian guys. Most of the Asian guys around here stick with other Asians in clusters.
 
Lovelylife said:
I understand your concerns, I just don't know what else I would have done. I actually like him and I know I won't meet another guy like that, especially when it comes to Asian guys. Most of the Asian guys around here stick with other Asians in clusters.
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I really meant it when I said have fun. I hope you have a good time. :yep:
 
The odd thing is that he walked up to me like he knew me. What should I think about this? I can tell he already had the date planned out and everything.
 
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Lovelylife said:
The odd thing is that he walked up to me like he knew me. What would I think about this, I can tell he already had the date planned out and everything.
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Sounds like he was wanting to ask you out all along. He probably just got up the nerve to ask you.
 
How exciting. I know how you feel. I was where you are not too long ago. Now things are going pretty well for me and the "new boo." :yep: Just relax and go with the flow. Good luck to you!
 
Congratulations!

Enjoy your date!

Go to a public place to ensure that you stay safe, and just talk and be yourself. :) Hope you have a great time!
 
Were you going to the same place to eat? Maybe he saw you before and has been wanting to ask you out.

OK, don't over analyze it. It's just a date. Have fun and wear whatever flatters you and makes you comfortable at the same time. :yep:
 
dodie said:
Were you going to the same place to eat? Maybe he saw you before and has been wanting to ask you out.

OK, don't over analyze it. It's just a date. Have fun and wear whatever flatters you and makes you comfortable at the same time. :yep:
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I guess so.
To be honest I don't think I want to go anymore. He seems more fun and no commitment. I can't have fun unless I know there will be some type of commitment. hummm.
 
Lovelylife said:
I guess so.
To be honest I don't think I want to go anymore. He seems more fun and no commitment. I can't have fun unless I know there will be some type of commitment. hummm.
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Hi Lovely! You just met him. Give yourself a chance to really get to know him and for him to prove himself to you before asking for a commitment. That's the great part about dating. You can stay completely true to your values and get to know a person to see if you guys are compatible. You should go as long as you are in a safe, public place and someone else knows where you are. :yep: Have fun!
 
Oh noooo! Lovelylife, I said it in a positive way:)

It IS impressive that you are doing that... in fact, the women who meet the most men DO do that (IMO).
Go ahead and have fun! as long as it is in a public place.

It's definitely refreshing when someone you meet ALREADY wants to take you out rather than asking for your number and wanting to start having text conversations with you or begin talking about "kicking it"... :nono:

Go ahead and have fun!!! Pretty please:)
 
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