Innocent_Kiss
Well-Known Member
Remember the guy all of my post in this forum was about? Yeah, well after a 7 day fast (YES, the yoke was THAT strong) God finally gave me the strength to leave
It's only been a few months, but I don't even have an apetite for him anymore
Fast forward, I'm stuck in between two extremes. I've always been in a relationship for the most part, eversince I've been dating! I can count the number of months on one hand in the past 5 years that I haven't been
See, I know how to be super single. Super single is when you have no man in your life AT ALL. No phone calls, no sex, no relationship, no dating, no nothing. I'm cool with that. I like to call these time periods ME TIME, and I actually enjoy them.
What I don't know how to do is live in the medium between a relationship and being super single. When I'm involved with somebody, I'm 100%. I don't know how to have a dating relationship. After leaving a 3 year relationship, I actually yearn to be super single. In fact, one of my goals is to be whole with self first before I dare consider sharing me with someone else. The next time I date, I want a man to be able to add to me, not make me.
Soooooo....I've been dating someone else, and in this experience I realized that I don't know how to just date someone. I realized that I don't have to be 100% available to him, I don't owe him my body, ...I'm not obligated to do anything, actually. So, help me out ladies. What does a healthy dating relationship look like?
![Yep :yep: :yep:](/smilies/yep.gif)
![Barf :barf: :barf:](/smilies/barf.gif)
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
See, I know how to be super single. Super single is when you have no man in your life AT ALL. No phone calls, no sex, no relationship, no dating, no nothing. I'm cool with that. I like to call these time periods ME TIME, and I actually enjoy them.
What I don't know how to do is live in the medium between a relationship and being super single. When I'm involved with somebody, I'm 100%. I don't know how to have a dating relationship. After leaving a 3 year relationship, I actually yearn to be super single. In fact, one of my goals is to be whole with self first before I dare consider sharing me with someone else. The next time I date, I want a man to be able to add to me, not make me.
Soooooo....I've been dating someone else, and in this experience I realized that I don't know how to just date someone. I realized that I don't have to be 100% available to him, I don't owe him my body, ...I'm not obligated to do anything, actually. So, help me out ladies. What does a healthy dating relationship look like?