My cousin's husband told her last week that this female at his job asked him to go half on a birthday celebration. Her b-day is on the 19th but she is celebrating it on the 13th my cousin's husband b-day. She said he never called and confirmed with the girl about the arrangements. So he tells her yesterday, that he is going to attend the co-workers b-day party. The same co-worker who asked him to go half on a party.
She works during the week and has children, which you know he figured when he made the decision to go. She tells him she's going with him and he goes into the whole, you have to work friday morning and we can do something on the weekend, and all this crap. She tells him, it doesn't make sense for him to be at someone else's party on his b-day and not have any of his friends and family. He still continues pushing the whole, she has to work, he thought they would kick it this weekend, yadda yadda yadda.
Now, I don't know if my cousin is really going to attend this weekday party but I told her I'm more concerned with him wanting to attend and celebrate on his birthday without his wife present. I told her to make sure she is dressed down to the last minute before and drop those children off with me. He either will not attend this party or he will take her with him.
It sounds to me as if, he really did go half on this party to celebrate his day and he HAS invited his people and because he knows she works and has the children, she wouldn't consider going. I told her sometimes you have to shake the routine up, even if she isn't going make that n***** think she is going.
I guarantee, all of a sudden his tune will change. It's a shame the games men try to play! I told her to call me and I'll be ready to get the children when she says the word!
My other cousin says, I'm silly and she shouldn't go if she feels he doesn't want her to go! I'm like bull****!
She works during the week and has children, which you know he figured when he made the decision to go. She tells him she's going with him and he goes into the whole, you have to work friday morning and we can do something on the weekend, and all this crap. She tells him, it doesn't make sense for him to be at someone else's party on his b-day and not have any of his friends and family. He still continues pushing the whole, she has to work, he thought they would kick it this weekend, yadda yadda yadda.
Now, I don't know if my cousin is really going to attend this weekday party but I told her I'm more concerned with him wanting to attend and celebrate on his birthday without his wife present. I told her to make sure she is dressed down to the last minute before and drop those children off with me. He either will not attend this party or he will take her with him.
It sounds to me as if, he really did go half on this party to celebrate his day and he HAS invited his people and because he knows she works and has the children, she wouldn't consider going. I told her sometimes you have to shake the routine up, even if she isn't going make that n***** think she is going.
I guarantee, all of a sudden his tune will change. It's a shame the games men try to play! I told her to call me and I'll be ready to get the children when she says the word!
My other cousin says, I'm silly and she shouldn't go if she feels he doesn't want her to go! I'm like bull****!
Who would be there that he doesn't want her to see? Perhaps the co-worker herself or other employees that might know this relationship is more than platonic. The whole thing is just wrong.
