How would you respond??

JewelleNY

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Ladies, how would you respond if you were out with a guy at a grocery store and he asked if you liked nuts, then reached down picked up a walnut out of the bulk foods section, saw the look on your face, then dropped it back in??

How would you respond??
 
Ladies, how would you respond if you were out with a guy at a grocery store and he asked if you liked nuts, then reached down picked up a walnut out of the bulk foods section, saw the look on your face, then dropped it back in??

How would you respond??

I need more info/details. I don't get it.
 
Um.........tell him to buy the bag he reached into? Or act like I didn't notice and carry on.

Where is this going?
 
Lol!

It wouldn't gross you guys out that he put his hand in the bulk nuts container, they do provide little scoop things to scoop out what you want. I buy bulk nuts and cranberries often at Whole Foods and would be pissed to see someone else do this, the whole hands are dirty thing :)

Plus, he dropped it back in after picking it up on his hand, yuck!

I thought it was gross and he lacked basic manners but maybe I overreacted? :/
 
Dude is wack, I expected him to respond with "deez nutz nicca!" Im sorry. Boondocks :look:
 
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I would probably say "Giggety giggety" and KIM...but i'm married to a Quagmire so I always have a comeback for stupid sexual jokes.
 
Okay, so I'm taking it that it wasn't that big of a deal :). I told him it was gross and stealing. I'll KIM next time. I am a big germaphobe. He hates touching doorknobs so I was surprised.

Thanks for the responses, sorry I wasn't too clear initially :)
 
Oh, so this is someone you are already dating....:drunk:

Guess you will have to weigh it, decide how you feel about it then...lol

Im sure he has other admirable traits if you two are an item..:)
 
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I'd ask him if he liked fish. Then, reach in my cart and slap him with a salmon filet. The dude sounds lame.
 
Ok, so this wasn't a lame attempt to make a pass at you? So, you were offended by his dirty hands touching some walnuts?

Oh ok.....yea, I guess that is gross. No, you weren't too hard on him.
 
Oh I get it now..Op, I thought your question was in regards to the (possible) sexual innuendo in his "Do you like nuts?" question. But you are actually talking about him picking up a nut with his bare hands...

Its not a big deal to me. People touch all over everything at the grocery. It's your responsibility to rinse/wash your stuff when you get home. The places and the people your groceries come in contact with before getting to the supermarket, would likely cause you more concern than that guys hands. Plus walnuts are encased in a shelf. The part you eat is safe from his dusty paws.
 
Lol!

It wouldn't gross you guys out that he put his hand in the bulk nuts container, they do provide little scoop things to scoop out what you want. I buy bulk nuts and cranberries often at Whole Foods and would be pissed to see someone else do this, the whole hands are dirty thing :)

Plus, he dropped it back in after picking it up on his hand, yuck!

I thought it was gross and he lacked basic manners but maybe I overreacted? :/

I just bought a bag of bulk nuts today.... :lol:


I would have asked him to remove the nut he had in his hand and to discard it and then explain why I had a problem with it.

Now of course he'd probably respond about other people who do the same that 'you' (general you) don't know about beforehand. :lol:

Nevertheless, tell him that he will now be one less person who does. :look:

Merry Christmas JewelleNY :Rose:
 
Lol!

It wouldn't gross you guys out that he put his hand in the bulk nuts container, they do provide little scoop things to scoop out what you want. I buy bulk nuts and cranberries often at Whole Foods and would be pissed to see someone else do this, the whole hands are dirty thing :)

Plus, he dropped it back in after picking it up on his hand, yuck!

I thought it was gross and he lacked basic manners but maybe I overreacted? :/
ok, i see... i didn't quite understand @ 1st...
my WF bulk dispensers do not allow for your hands to go in them
tbh not that big of a deal on my list of deal breakers
 
Oh I get it now..Op, I thought your question was in regards to the (possible) sexual innuendo in his "Do you like nuts?" question. But you are actually talking about him picking up a nut with his bare hands...

Its not a big deal to me. People touch all over everything at the grocery. It's your responsibility to rinse/wash your stuff when you get home. The places and the people your groceries come in contact with before getting to the supermarket, would likely cause you more concern than that guys hands. Plus walnuts are encased in a shelf. The part you eat is safe from his dusty paws.
this is what i initially thought too


I'd ask him if he liked fish. Then, reach in my cart and slap him with a salmon filet. The dude sounds lame.
:lol:
 
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Yea... People touch nuts, fruit & veggies with their bare hands all the time. You don't check to see of your fruit is ripe before you buy it? I think your reaction was weirder than his action.
 
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Yea... People touch nuts, fruit & veggies with their bare hands all the time. You don't check to see of your fruit is ripe before you buy it? I think your reaction was weirder than his action.

I appreciate everyone's responses :). It was actually walnuts without the shell and he was going to eat it, said he does it all of the time. Nothing sexual at all, again my apologies for not being clear.

Merry Christmas Shimmie! :)
 
Yea... People touch nuts, fruit & veggies with their bare hands all the time. You don't check to see of your fruit is ripe before you buy it? I think your reaction was weirder than his action.

But we wash fruits before we eat them, we don't wash nuts. Do people wash nuts?
 
So, now ya'll are arguing over loose nuts vs. nuts in a sack :giggle:

Don't mind me. I'm just being silly. :lol:
 
Loose nuts lol! I wouldn't make a big deal of it but I would frown like "eww man". I doubt I buy that type of nuts knowing people just dip in them at random.
 
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